I remember there was a TV serial that named "Dnnot talk with stranger"  about  family violence.It described a women who was mild and beautiful was attacked by her husband when she talked a man in the street or in the office. This woman used some methods to get rid of her husband,but he always fond her and brounght her to the home,then attacted her untill he fell better and her bleed.  So far ,i remember many details about this serial because it was very violence.However,there are many soft family violence in lots of families with the rapid economical development.Certainly,soft family violence is happening on the child.It appears when a kid did some wrong things,his parent donot talk to him,having a grim face or always think their kid never better than other kids.This kind of way will not hurt child's physically,but spiritual.

        Do you experience such a situation?when a guest came to your home,bring his kid,your parent asked this kid many questions,and then would said"your kid is very good,my kids alwayd like to paly game and donot like to think or study".Maybe your parent wanted to praise this child for building a good relationship between two families.However,this talking hurted their kid.I think it is horrible that the parent donot talk with their kid when he failed a test or made a mistake.This action will hurt the kid's  heart,even make him to form a unconfident personality.

        Therefore,when parent teach children,they should be patient,not only use physical violence but aslo not soft violence,because the damage of both violence is equal.