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Every man has to make tough choices in many difficult times. No one can tell you whether your choice is right or wrong. What worse is nobody can be responsible for your desicion, even your parents, your best friend, they only can give you advice depanding on their experiences. The final choice still needed to be made by yourself. After that, you need to persist in your decision without regreting and hesitation.
Since I approach the final of my college time, I have been tolerated by the question that where should I go, keeping studying my major subject or finding a job in a company. It seems still have a long time for me to choose, but this choice means a lot. It just like a lamb in the dark. Only I get the direction can I work harder in it. Otherwise I would be lazy and addicted to boring games, TV shows etc. Besides, I won't want to be fulfilled by endless useless exams and practices.
However I either cant sure I can pass the text to be a master or get a work in a good company. For example, I prefer to work in foreigh company but I also realize the strict limits. Based on this situation, I cannot choose easily. From my perspective, one can only live once, not like game you can load/save. So I want to live my life more meaningfully. As a result, I become more and more hesitant and fear failure.
A few days ago, I chatted with my friend and asked for suggestions. She said"If you cant figue out the benifits then let your feeling determine this. Just only considering your interest ." Honestly, I was a little shocked at that momment. It has been a long time that I have been influenced by the general living ways. Almost everyone around me has the same dream like a good job, a nice wife and one or two babies. However, in our earlier age, we have various dreams, becoming scientist, doctor, teacher etc. Absolutely not like today. Thanks for her advice, reminding my innitial mind. In the near future, you need to work for 8 hours every day, If you dont love your job, how terrible it will be.
Maybe God prefer to play crap game, you cant predict your future and you dont need to. The most interesting thing is just the uncertainty of life. You just need to enjoy you life entirely and keep hope.
Since I approach the final of my college time, I have been tolerated by the question that where should I go, keeping studying my major subject or finding a job in a company. It seems still have a long time for me to choose, but this choice means a lot. It just like a lamb in the dark. Only I get the direction can I work harder in it. Otherwise I would be lazy and addicted to boring games, TV shows etc. Besides, I won't want to be fulfilled by endless useless exams and practices.
However I either cant sure I can pass the text to be a master or get a work in a good company. For example, I prefer to work in foreigh company but I also realize the strict limits. Based on this situation, I cannot choose easily. From my perspective, one can only live once, not like game you can load/save. So I want to live my life more meaningfully. As a result, I become more and more hesitant and fear failure.
A few days ago, I chatted with my friend and asked for suggestions. She said"If you cant figue out the benifits then let your feeling determine this. Just only considering your interest ." Honestly, I was a little shocked at that momment. It has been a long time that I have been influenced by the general living ways. Almost everyone around me has the same dream like a good job, a nice wife and one or two babies. However, in our earlier age, we have various dreams, becoming scientist, doctor, teacher etc. Absolutely not like today. Thanks for her advice, reminding my innitial mind. In the near future, you need to work for 8 hours every day, If you dont love your job, how terrible it will be.
Maybe God prefer to play crap game, you cant predict your future and you dont need to. The most interesting thing is just the uncertainty of life. You just need to enjoy you life entirely and keep hope.
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- Reply sunnyv
- I want to tell you that no decision is perfect. Every decision we make has flaws. Making an important decision about our future is never easy. Accordingly, we can only make the ''best'' decision with the best information we have on hand. There may be regrets about the decision later in life but we must remember that we have done the best we can.
So how do we make a decision in your situation about your future career? Everybody have some special interest, so that interest is the starting point. First, You must choose something you like otherwise it would be very hard to pass the days with a hated job. Second, you can't choose what you like because you have to think about the market demand and the availability of those jobs that you like. For example, you may want to work in a foreign trading company but there are no vacancies in those companies, so you would have to work in other local companies until foreign company jobs are available. In other words, it is too early to decide exactly what you want to do, but just keep in mind what your interest is and see what happens when you start looking for a job. You need a job more that the job needs you and there are not many good jobs available. Be flexible and try to fit in to the market needs.
When I graduated, I tried different jobs before I settled down on a job which I know I can learn something useful for my future and worked myself up from there. Now I have my own small or medium company with good income, thanks to the things I have learnt from my previous jobs and used that experience to start my own company.
I can see from what you have written that you are concerned about your future and want to be successful. Don't give yourself too much unnecessary pressure and just do the needful. Others are also in the same situation as you are in and they are also trying their best, so should you. Wish you the best success.
- Reply lovingfun
- Making decisions never comes easy. If you want to make a sound decisions, I could share my ideas with you.
When we make decisions, we should know what kind of thing we can do instead of we want to do. There are lots of things we want to do, but in fact only several things which we can do.
Next, we should persist on the decisions which we have already made, and no matter what results maybe, we should not regret about them.
If at present, we cannot make sure what we should can do, then just follow our true feeling, then just do it. Don't think too much, but sound think is highly needed.
- Reply sunnyv
- "We should know what kind of thing we can do instead of we want to do." Good direction. That is what I wanted to say too.
- Reply teadrinking
- I can more or less sense your feeling right now. What we experience we met and decisions we made are becoming the lessons of what we are about to learn and for the next step we are to move.
