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i have been preparing for pregnant for about 3 month.during these days.i ate folic acid that can prevent baby from deformity.i also persuade my husband to give up smoking and drinking.even though my husband agree with it,he always broke his promise for work excuse,i understand it'hard to avoid smoking and drinking in social activities,but i can't forgive him ingloring contol and limit himself,i'm extreme woman that i thought it shows irresponsibility，yesterday he told me he drunk at dinner with business partners,i can't bear it and say any word anymore,till now one whole day passed,i haven't said anything with him,terrible cold war and a sad day,i don't know why a negative thought across my mind tell me to break up with him,i hate this feeling.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Pregnancy is a happy event, so don't give yourself too much pressure. A happy mother means a happy baby. You are doing the right thing by taking folic acid supplements. It is better to take it before pregnancy. There are scientific proof that it does prevent deformities. Having some nutritious food is also helpful.
As for your husband's smoking habit, you don't have to be so hard on him. Smoking addiction is very hard to drop. Smoking is not very harmful so long as your home has good ventilation and he smokes in an open space if possible. Don't be affected by this. As for drinking, social drinking is acceptable but addictive drinking should be eliminated as it could cause damage to internal organs causing long term suffering. Explain to him tenderly that it is for his own good and I am sure he would listen. You don't have to go so far as to think about breaking up with him. That is your husband, dear, the future father of your child. Be a bit tolerant and everything would be fine.
During pregnancy, the most important nutrients would go to the baby and the mother is deprived. You would be worried and upset easily and can have extreme reaction to minor things. Talk to your husband about this and let both of you pass the pregnancy safely and pleasantly. You are going to have a lovely healthy baby in several months time and we look forward to that. Best wishes and blessings to you.
- Reply gogo-alice
- thanks for comfort me and explain preganancy things,if we have some conflict with wrong time that i'm suffering other things,don't worry,i will adjust myself to recover the relationship with my husband,try to communicate with him.
sunnyv: Pregnancy is a happy event, so don't give yourself too much pressure. A happy mother means a happy baby. You are doing the right thing by taking folic ...
- Reply sunnyv
gogo-alice: thanks for comfort me and explain preganancy things,if we have some conflict with wrong time that i'm suffering other things,don't worry,i will adjust ...
- Reply lovingfun
- Do not treat everything too extrem. Afterall this is a matter of two. I think you should find a good time to communicate with him in a calm way. You shouldn't make a haste decision, that may make you regret in future. If you don't care him, you won't make that decision, am I right?
Do keep easy, then things will go better.
- Reply noah.xiang
- tell you truth , man's todpole are not generated current day. the night out of them already generated three month ago. and only strong one can accross your toll-gate. the weaks already killed by your defender
