Man and woman have their special attractions for each other, they think the other is excellent and reliable at first. After having lived tegother for a long time, they find something they didn't see before. Woman complaint her husband doesn't care about her feelings or listen to what she says. Maybe the man listens for a few minutes, but after it he would choose to ignore woman's emotion expression and put on Mr.Fix-it hat, then offer a solution to woman's problem. The man regards his solution as an expression of his ability, but the woman prefers the comfort and concerns. For man, his hated thing is the fact that woman always wants to change him, he thinks woman affect his work method. Woman wants her partner to become better in communication and relations, man work more easily is what woman desires to see. However, man doesn't look it as woman, he thinks he can't get things done or make others satisfied, the offerring solution comes. He enjoys the success of work alone, and he looks it as the most admitting on his ability. 
      We will find it funny when we are in the valuable time. Man is more concerned on live goals and success, woman care feeling and relation more, love is magical, it can last if we remember our difference.