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I was born in a small village,not rich.I get married with a man without a car and a house,he is a migrant worker,not rich as well.I think most couples like us.It's common phenomenon.
I think the car and house are not so important.We always can find somewhere to settle down.For the time being,we don't have enough money to buy a house.Now we have two kids,they are twin daughters.So my husband works day in and day out to support this family.It's not easy.He always puzzled by the burden on his shoulders.There is always a gloom on his face.So there is little harmonious atmosphere in the home.Sometimes I want to amuse him ,but I failed.He looks so unromantic.We never celebrate the Valentine's Day,Wedding anniversary,even the Mid Autumn Day.Only in Spring Festival can we stay together.I don't count on any present from him.
Car and house,I can dream them,but they never come to my dream.That's not what I desire.I know that money will come and go.Only the love and be loved should we cherish.
I am dreaming of earning a lot of money to lighten the burden on my husband.Then we will have some time together.
Some people say I can have the third child,a son will be fine.Actually,I don't want to.It's a complex problem.You must take many factors into consideration.It's a lot easier said than done.At least,I think so.
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Post comment Comment (8 replies)
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- I'm afraid your husband is a serious and responsible man. This kind of men may not so humorous or even dull to stay with. But they are usually dependable. There is No perfection in the world, do agree with that?
- Reply Catherine陈
- I think life will be better .
- Reply sunnyv
- Look here dear, you already have the essentials of life but seems you don't realize it. We all have high esteem for ourselves. We all want the best life for ourselves and those near and dear to us. It is just natural that we want for ourselves which others have... house, car, love, children, good family, education, skills, health, wealth, comfortable living, overseas vacations, admiration, status, friends etc, etc, but I wonder how many people have all these advantages. Not many of us have all these. Then why all of us keep chasing these things which are out of our reach? Simple, everyone wants to have the best and want the satisfaction of a good life and living. The truth and reality is that we don't need all have all these things. Just have the essentials is good enough. Whatever more you have, see it as a blessing and consider yourself as more fortunate than others.
Do you realize how many people out there just have a simple wish of getting married but can't do so for different reasons? Many can't find a suitable partner, parents interference, low income, overage, plain appearance poor background, low status, etc. Time passes them by and they have little hope of achieving those dreams. Some would be happy just having a loving and partner beside them.
There is nothing wrong with hoping to have the things you wish because those wishes are not really too extravagant, but you would never be really happy and satisfied until you know what you already have and where to be satisfied. God is nice to you by giving you a pretty face or pleasant appearance, otherwise it won't even be easy for you to get married. You already have a well constituted family, a set of lovely twin girls, a hardworking and trusty husband. You don't really have much unsolvable problems, and in fact, you are heading towards a promising family life.
If you want to happy life, you would have to learn how to be contented, otherwise, you would keep chasing for unrealistic dreams. You are already better than lots of others, so be grateful and live a satisfied and happy life, even if it is a simple and ordinary life. Your mission in life is already mostly completed as a girl because you already have a family.
Men mostly can't express their feelings properly and they won't let you know their real feelings because they want to appear strong and capable, so don't expect him to have good reaction to your romantic, humorous, sweet or caring actions, but I can tell you he loves these gestures, so you would have to keep providing them too keep the good relations alive. He needs your comforting especially after a hard days of frustrating work. You can do it so why not create a warm feeling for the benefit of everyone. A happy family basis of success.
OK, this is getting too long. I would stop here and the rest you would surely know what to do. Have a good time.
- Reply Yummy525
- Your comment is very long,sounds resonable.In fact,few words can't express all my life conditions.I always persuade myself to be contented.I said the car and house are not what I desire.What I need is company.After getting married,you will be more lonely,so you can only count on your partner.Really thanks for your priceless advice.
sunnyv: Look here dear, you already have the essentials of life but seems you don't realize it. We all have high esteem for ourselves. We all want the best li ...
- Reply Yummy525
- In all he is a good man,if he could be romatic,it would be fine.If not,in real life,I must accept it,be contented.
IMNONARCISSUS: I'm afraid your husband is a serious and responsible man. This kind of men may not so humorous or even dull to stay with. But they are usually depend ...
- Reply teadrinking
- Your husband is doing the best to support the whole family. And you are at thought of if you can do something to better the situation. This is could be like the life we all have to face. And each family has its own affairs to deal with.
Think about your twin daughters. I do admire you very much. They bring you happiness. Anything could be warm when you think of them.
Things are gonna be better.
- Reply Yummy525
- Yes.He has done a great job.Because of his hard working ,we have moved from a small house to a much bigger one.I can read some sense of achievement on his face and he mentioned it ever before.Like you said,thinking about my twin daughters,I am really happy.
teadrinking: Your husband is doing the best to support the whole family. And you are at thought of if you can do something to better the situation. This is could ...
