There is a piece of news during the lunar holiday. A girl from Shanghai proposed to break up with her boy friend he is from Jiang Xi rural area, because of a picture she posted on the website of foods on the table which looks like garages, most of us cannot accept and we don’t believe it from this spring festival.

The girl is working in HR and her mother and father are all native in Shanghai, she knew the boy at one year ago, due to the competence of work and good looking, the girl likes this kind of boy even he cannot afford to buy a house in this one or two years and no power of the family background, although her parents strongly against, she was still keeping the relationship and accept to visit his hometown at the lunar year. To her surprise that the dishes on the table from his home she have never seen it before, she realized and decision making at the day, go back to Shanghai as early as she can and no doubt to break up with him  immediately.

Frankly speaking I agreed, the marriage is the important for the family in the social, the happiness or not is effect the whole society, even there is the big different the living standard compare Shanghai and Jiang Xi, surely our government will support the poor area as much as they can, but it needs the time to balance, in reality, the small family cannot wait. They might have many problems in their life if they are not separation.

That’s why there are many single guys from the countryside, the women and girls from the places prefer to marry city boys, they go out of the village looking for a simple job it is not too hard, the social welfare is not bad for the employee, so no any women wants to go back the home town. General speaking, reducing the family arguments and the family to be consoled is the most important thing.