I have two elder brothers in my family, one brother has a daughter she has married and had delivered the baby at the two years ago. Another brother has a son who is named Meng Meng, he is a handsome boy 185cm height, as the boy with enough height can say easy to look for Mrs Right in our relative’s eyes.

As the traditional way, as the boy he is the inheritor in our big family, after he graduated from the college, we were getting the busy about looking his girl friend. Frankly speaking we are proud and so picky when some chances coming from the friends or colleagues, as Meng Meng is from a ordinary family, He is over spoiled as a girl by my brother and my sister in law, for example, when he goes out from the school or from the work, his parents would like to pick him up in the early morning or the late evening in any days of the years, I cannot accept and talk to my brother many times, please let him go freely, he is a man, he can protect you if necessary. Don’t think he is a baby, surely any children in parents’ eye are always child, but we have to get them the chances and bring the talent into the play. I know it needs the time to change the situation a little by little.

At the beginning of this year, I was told Meng Meng knew a girl in his college, maybe can be his girl friend as processing now, we were all happy for the information, but his parent are totally against him strongly, because of the girl is not as tall as we expected, compare with Meng Meng looks not so match each other, but everyone has the different theory, especially in this modern society. My brother was very headache and wanted me to persuade his son for give up this girl.

I know Meng Meng is a cold cat, as long as he thinks it is right, very hard to change his mind, my point was very clear to tell my brother, the new family making is not you, by him, as long as he is happy, to be his family members we are all supporting him, let him do what he likes, I am sure he knows how important looking for the wife in his life, he must be well thought of this decision.

At the last week the good news I got Meng Meng has registered the marriage officially, we are all happy for him. Congratulations!!!