Da Hai is my grandson, he is four years old this year, the meaning of name is the great ocean and sea, which can conquer all strong wind and big wave, it was given by my father-in law when he was born in the year 2016. Hopefully he will be a brave boy in the future.

But in fact, he is not so strong in front of his friends sometime. One day when he went back from the kindergarten, one of his friends Dong Dong wanted to grab the toy from Da Hai, which is the new toy I bought for him one day ago, even we always educate him to share the goods with your friends in any time. You may get the same feedback, but DH thought which is mine and new one he likes so much, so he did not share anybody at the moment. Dong Dong has never showed weakness, he hit DH’s head by his hand, however, DH did not had any reaction to fight back, just I saw the situation, I felt so frustrated. After back home, I said to DH seriously, if anybody bully you without any reasons, Please fight back immediately, I am not sure whether it is good way for him or not, but at least I hope my boy to be a tough one in the social.

My daughter took DH to learn English every morning, till today He can read many animals according to the picture, So please don’t underestimate child wisdom, they are so clever than our adults. Sometime he challenged me to ask the question of English.

Now Every morning, his grand mom pick him to kindergarten every day, I was told the last week he was not willing to school by any act shamelessly, and my daughter has accepted. So the spoil is always not good for baby’s growing. I am taking this to my daughter seriously, this      was the first time he was absent, and hopefully this is the last time as well.