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When i meet my daughter after work, I saw she was eating the biscuit personally. and I saw some other children there. So i asked her to share with others. But she has more but give others just a little. and i decided to help her. but what i just do make her angry, and she thought that i am not a good mother, not so fair. since at last she just has one piece. I had realized and told her that she can take another at home.
On the way back. She was angry and unhappy, when i was buying some food and vegetables for dinner. she was saying she donot want this and do not want that. At last, i was angry too. and told her the benefits of sharing. But she was nagging.
I am so angry that i told her that she can not get the another one since what she did just now anger me. then she cried and was crying one the whole way. I was the one who will be more angry when she was crying.
So i shout at her, and told her i was very angry.
Though at last we get well. But i still thought that i had done something wrong since the biscuits was hers, and she has the rights to deal with it herself.
Post comment Comment (4 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Can't say you are wrong because you are teaching your child the right thing, that is sharing reasonably. Perhaps you should let her do it herself instead of helping her share the biscuit.
You don't have to worry about this incident as in your daughter's heart you are a kind and good mother. She cries because you have made the sharing decision for her instead of herself.
Just go on teaching your child the right way. She would grow up to be a happy and successful girl.
- Reply chuanjiacai
- just education method have some problem, i think if always use this method.it's cause the big problem for childhood.
- Reply teadrinking
- Teaching kids is responsible and your initial intention was good for her. Just at some degrees, you lost the patience to persuade her.
Kids are really so needed to take education from parents, and mostly we are just lake the patience to tell them what is good and what should be about to advocate.
Next time you may try to low down your volume of your voice and talk to her. Do not blame her. As if you two were two close friends, not just the relation between mother and daughter. Then she feels that you respect her. This is the very important point we have to face.
Years later, she still remembers the lesson of biscuits sharing from yours and is thankful for your teaching.
