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Today i found one lovelorn.and it makes me remind of my past affection.Since once i am the one think that i can not live without him.
For have been together for about 4years. As times goes on , i found i love him so much that i am afraid that he will live me one day.
But at last he still leave, The only excuse is that he want to have him own career and donot want to have affection, then he just give up the four years affection.I knew well that it is just the excuse. maybe he had the new girl or maybe have other reason.
I remember i was crying every night in the bed and pretend nothing happens daytime.I plea for him and do many cheap thing just want to save him.
But I found whatever i do is just helpless. as time goes on i give up by keep busy.
Though nowadays i got married. But sometimes i will miss him a little. But i believe that the one i love is the past him.So i think even he come back now then we can not be together since we are different and not the old ourselves.
So i hope everyone have affection can go out soon. I think go out of affection does not mean that we fogot him or her completely just hide that affection and not so strong feelings. But sometimes something can remind us of the old times.
It is one important period in our life. At least i think so although i am not sure if he will think so.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Lost love and affection. Most of us have met someone we love in our lifetime and lost that love. The memory is particularly deep if it is our first love. It hurts a lot and it is hard to forget our first love.
Men don't like to get married because there is no freedom and too much responsibility. That is why a lot of people are still unmarried. When we find a partner and fall in love, it is better to get married soon because after a year or two, the fresh feeling would be lost and there would be arguments. Living together is not easy or simple. Furthermore, he may meet somebody new and you would be placed second place.
After marriage it is safer because there is a legal relationship and he would feel responsibility for the family and would settle down.
Marriage is mostly arranged by fate and when fate gives you the one, then we should accept the arrangement of fate. We are all hot blooded human beings and it is just natural that we miss people who we loved in the past. That shows you are a an emotional and faithful person. However, the past is the past and we should concentrate with our life. He may also miss you but nobody knows what is on his mind so let it be.
If you are happy with the person beside you now, then it is good enough. Life goes on.
