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Today we are talking about marriage in the office. since one of my colleague will get married soon.He just meet her girl friend for s few days. they are introduced by their relatives. But they will get married soon, He said he did not know each other well since they selm contact or talk to each other. Her girl friend is staying at homeside but he work here in wenzhou.
It is a little hard for us to understand this kind of marriage in the new century.But he said he has no way since his family put a lot of pressure on him.
We suggest that he can ask her girl frient come to wenzhou then they can communicate with each other and know more about each other.Since marriage is a serious thing in China, we should take it seriouly.He but said that her gilr friend do not want to come here.
It is a little out of imagination to hear this kins of marriage.Since out parents will have this kind of marriage but most of them live happy in their life.For our generation. It is not a common thing.
But in my oppinion, We should know each other before marriage.Or it will be a little strange.
Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- This is not a real marriage. It is just force two people together and call it a marriage. Very soon, they will find each other not suitable and will separate. If they have children then it will be a big problem. It is hard to live with someone for your whole life if you don't have a love relationship.
On the other hand, a lot of people want to get married but cannot find a suitable person for marriage.
So I don't know if this is a blessing or unfortunate. Wish them the best.
- Reply teadrinking
- Their life routine is designed by their parents which is a bad news.
What can I say is just hope they can live a good life. But it is full of uncertainties about the two just know each other for few days.
