broken up their relationship when know that she is not a vergin. I was shocked by that scene. Since the mordern society, how many virgin there was. If

the two loved each other in their heart why they care about that? I remember one sentences  which is from the weichat moments,it said that : China is a so traditional society, But when we take a walk around the university in the evening, We can find and hears that the lovers are everywhere in every corner of the university, But in japan.which have many pornograhic film coutry, We seldom saw these in their society.It is reasonable and should make us in deep thinking. 

As a girl, we should protect ourselves. One i read a sentence that every man hope that they are the first man to their wife but they will have different

girl friends before marriage. Some even live together with their girl friend. So then how many vergins there will be in the society. Also women expects that their fiance will be their first  and last one. But on one the scold them if they are not the first one. But if girl is not a vergin. Man will care about.

Why? In China tradition, People all think in this way. It is the tradition.

Since many things will not occur just as our plan even for the one with traditional thought.Take me for example, I am also the traditional gilr since i come from coutryside, Though i heard that many people will have love affairs in colleague, But i still believe that i will not.

When i was a freshman, in the second semester, One boy from physics deparment, he want to chase me.But I was afraid that since i had heard many love affair in colleague. I am always escaping him. Even to change the mobi phone number. After the 2en semester is over then he gave up and lve with other girls.  During sophmore semester,my fellow-townsman also chasing me. at first, we are just frends. Since i did not want to have love affection in the society, and he also respect me. I seems that he is also a traditional man. But later on, we fell in love, and he promised to not have any close relationship before marriage. Yes he did,But after graduation, we had met our parents and decided to marry, then we had close relationship.

But after one year later, our relationship broke up. We had fell in love with each other for more than four years. So when i married. I am also not a vergin, Luckily, My husband not care since he thought that everyone had his story. We should live in the present. No one can change the past facts.

Somethings happens but we can not control or plan.

Traditional culture is very important. But it is not say that if we broke one tradition then we will not have the futures.