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This is the hardest part for me to write, as I always remember: write your sad times in sand, write your great times in stone. Luckily, my memory is terribly bad, it has been faded…I would like only recall the happiest moment.
However, when I read some articles from what you guys’ posting, someone are still struggling: how to pursue their dream, how to get out of the life they don’t enjoy, truly I can understand that feeling very much as I was in the same boat as you.
In my early 20s, I probably was the worst scenario compared to all you guys here. You might curious: “what happened to you, you seems having a great life at the moment.” Yes, that’s true, but you may not know, I had several times nearly hurt myself by eating coated ends of matches mixed with water, as I wanna myself getting sick, I pretended to be stomachache, so that I could go to the hospital in order to avoid people in the company, I hoped if there was an earthquake or a flood, how happy I could be, my life would be changed automatically.
Every day whenever I stepped into the office, I could hear the voice all day around no matter a joke or a seriously care: “When are you gonna marry? When are you gonna marry? Your boyfriend will be worried for not getting married? ” I was sooo weak that time, it seemed everyone’s against me if I told them my true feeling: “I am not prepared enough to get married” I could spend whole day gossiping with them, but if anyone saw me doing any study, a sarcastic voice can be heard: “You study very hard, I never study as hard as you.” I was useless, I didn’t know how to against them as I would be isolated or laughed at if I did anything different from them.
In my age, there’s almost no choice for me quitting the job. If I quit the job, that means I lost security all my life, no wages, no medicare sort of, and there was very little chance for the society to provide a new job. Only very few risk takers started running their private companies.
I couldn’t stand that environment, I could not feel there’s life, the only thing I could do was wasting time gossiping with everyone in order to make them happy. My heart told me I couldn’t to be that sort of person as I still held a dream—from the books I read regarding someone being brave enough quit the job pursuing his or her dream overseas, that was very interesting story to me.
For several time, I cleared the desk, I was gonna say good bye to my colleagues, but I couldn’t step out, one lady told me: “ you can’t quit the job, you will regret forever.” My dad was an open-minded one, I talked with him, he stood in the middle: “ok, you do whatever you like.” However, my husband a conservative gentleman told me: “you can’t quit the job, you can’t find a job as relaxing as your company.” (Well, in the end, I got married, as I was not strong enough to face those gossip ones, I thought if I got married, no one would bother me anymore.) I heard from all my relatives and friends: “no, you can’t quit the job, you will lose security.”
I was deeply in the darkness, I couldn’t see any lights ahead, there was only one image on my mind: my Aunt, who was working in the USA, she was my hope, but I didn’t contact with her for so long time as she left home when she was 18, the international phone call was very expensive, no emails at that time,so I can only remember her from my memory and expectation as I kept her on my mind to be my hero.
I set up a goal: I must study English as hard as possible, so that I could pass TOFEL or GRE, hopefully, my Aunt could help me in some way, that was just a good wish. I had no idea what’s going on later on.
But my English was almost on “0” level, I gotta go to work wasting whole day there, I didn't have much time study at home as I had responsibility taking care of my daughter, picking her up and taking her to school. I was sooo frustrated, if I couldn’t realize my dream, I had to end up my life in that company, how disappointed that would be, I haven’t experienced life, I haven’t seen a different world.
I was very excited by one quote which wrote on the New Oriental School Book: Hew a stone of hope out of a mountain of despair and you can make your life a splendid one. Wow, how wonderful that was, how heart was touhed, I could see a little hope ahead. I read that quote over and over….
At the end of 1990s, it was very popular in China for most of people over 45 got redundant, our company encouraged people to quit their job, while a lot of people were crying sadly for losing their job forever. One day, my heart was telling me: you had to quit your job, this was the last chance, I suddenly stood up , yes,yes, I had to make a decision. After the consent of my Dad, I was brave enough to tell my boss: I didn't wanna keep current position, and then passed my resignation letter.
I wanna cry, I wanna laught, I got my freedom eventually, I could make full use of my time, I was gonna no longer waste one more minute. I got started my new life from learning English. That’s what I wrote on my blog: passion with English how hard I did self-taught English study.
Since then, my life has been turned into a completely new chapter: I could do whatever I like, no matter fail or success. I am becoming a strong me, I am no longer afraid of anyone, I only listen to my heart, I will live a life I like.
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