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I used to see people were stressed out after breaking up a relationship: “Please please let me alone, I feel terribly bad.” They simply have no idea how to get over of it.
The world won’t be end if you break up a relationship with your boyfriend or a girlfriend, why you are so depressed after end up relationship because you put huge effort on the other side , however, you don’t get what you expected.
It is common if you have considered finding a partner more important than anything else you can do in the world, you stuck your mind on the others, stopping being yourself. Have you ever experienced things like this: sending text message all the time , if can’t receive message back, you will check your mobile every second of the time, or after one day, you still can’t find any single word. You might will be completely out of your mind, getting frustrated, anxious: “What’s wrong with it? Do I need to make a phone call? oh, nooo, just wait for a while.” Eventually, you will get very excited as there’s a message on your phone, it seems like the whole world is sunshine again.
In this case, your happy mood is totally affected by others, until one day, something happens, the relationship ends. You might feel triple upset than the happiness you’ve got, because you have put so much effort by getting nothing.
If someone can’t get over of it immediately, then they might complain: why the life is so unfair to me, my friend who is ugly than me can have such a lovely beautiful girl friend or a handsome boyfriend, why it’s not me?” They start residing in that negative thought, forgetting their parents who have ever spent so much time for taking care of them, ignoring the colourful autumn leaves or such nice spring flowers, stop joining activities they used to enjoy, with no contact with nice friends who ever talked with. There’s only one thing left on their mind--- I am the most miserable person in the world.
Here I am gonna tell you, happiness is a state of mind, no one else can help you , except you change it: get your mind out of sadness, discover hobbies you like and take action start doing it. eg, if you think you English is not good enough, why not spend 2 hours a day ,after 1 or 2 years, that will be more rewarding than the time you spend on a relationship but get nothing. Gradually, you will become much happier, as your mind is focus on something you really enjoy rather than a stupid relationship thing which drives you mental.
On the way, you’ll become a new confident you, you might lucky enough find a mind-like boy or a girl who fits you most, nobody like hang on a person who is full of negative thoughts, Time is short, you can’t afford to waste one more day, so start change from today….
Some quotes I enjoy:
· Everything happens for a reason, live it, love it, learn from it. Make your smile change the world, but don’t let the world change your smile.
· I will no longer allow the negative things in my life to spoil all of the good things I have. I choose to be happy.
· A true relationship is someone who accepts your past, supports your present, loves you and encourages your future.
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