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let kindness warm up this damm cold world

Hot 3623 views. 2016-6-2 14:44 | beautiful world, kindness, friendship, uni life

Two weeks ago, I was heading off to the  TSF Salsa Foundation,  when I was waiting at intersection for the traffic lights, it suddenly started raining, I was gonna blame myself for not taking an umbrella. At that moment, I felt something above the top of my head, I turned around, and it’s an Asian girl who was trying to help me out from getting wet. I was deeply moved, how beautiful her heart was!!!

 

What a flashback as it immediately brought my attention to something happened to me which was always on my mind. It was early in the morning, after I got off the train station; it’s raining cats and dogs, which was very unusual. I was glad as I took a really big red umbrella with me. While I was walking on the track, a young handsome Aussie guy caught my eyes; he was walking beside me with no umbrella. I was thinking about sharing the umbrella with him, but then I told myself: “Oh, no, don’t wanna bother, at least he didn’t ask.” I looked at him starting running in the stormy rain, which made me feel very uncomfortable. How mean I was? The longer I stay in Australia, the colder I am becoming. This was not the original me the first time when I arrived Australia, everyone told me that I was kind of nice, kind, friendly, helpful and happy person.

 

 It was until I met the lovely Asian girl I realized how important it was if we put a little bit effort gave care for the people who really need help, and the world will be different.

 

That’s how I felt like in the heaven the uni life though my material thing was the worst during that period. I was like deaf and dumb the first time in Australia, I had never left my family the whole life in China, even I didn’t do much housework. Now I had to face the reality by dealing with everything on my own. I had no idea where’s the shopping centre I could get cooking pans, bowls and all kind of groceries stuff. I really didn’t need worry too much; some happy accidents were waiting for me.

 

 One lovely Indian girl and a cute Indian boy who took me to the supermarket, I added everything in the trolley without taking consideration how I could carry them home. My god, it was so full, I have just found out that I had to return half of them back. Two Indian friends came towards me: “No worries, Emma, we’ve got a taxi for you.” To be honest, I didn’t understand what they were telling me until I got on the taxi and eventually arrived Chisholm College where I stayed. I insisted on giving them the money for taxi, but they were kindly refused me. “That’s all right, Emma, don’t worry about it.” Every time, I recall the smiling face of them, I feel so warm and happy.

 

 I remembered one very nice Malaysian girl used to cook ABC soup, Bamboo summer soup early in the morning, waiting us wake up by offering her free soup and cakes she made freshly.

 

 If I didn’t work with some very kind Aussie cleaner ladies, I would never have clue that someone with the lowest social status actually could be the best people in the world, who are much better than some kind of rich people only cares about money by treating others like shit. Every morning, at morning tea break, one lovely lady used to bring her different kinds of fruits and told me with her soft voice: “Daring, How are you today? Please help yourself as much as you can.” It’s not about those fruits; she just showed her care and kindness to someone useless like me who has just arrived in this new country.

 

 Some other cleaner ladies used to drive me around on the way to the supermarket, café shops, invited me having free BBQ. By the end of the day, one lady kindly passed me one friendship kit which was handmade by her in order to remind me friendship lasts forever. How wonderful these people!!!

 

 I feel my heart is racing while I am writing these happy moments, there are far too many things for appreciation, I have to cut down all of them for  next time, please don’t be afraid go to a new country, it is always better than what you imagined.

 

 I truly think it’s unfair as I noticed some people especially in the big cities of China treat newcomers who are pursuing a dream original from rural areas, small town, and countryside not very nice. Actually, some of them are the most ambitious, active, energetic, and brave dream-takers.  Let’s give them a hand as much as we can, just let the world getting better.


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Post comment Comment (6 replies)

Reply sunnyv 2016-6-2 18:56
My parents have always told me that I would be facing a realistic and material world when I enter society and start working. Nobody would send you firewood when it is snowing heavily unless you have some intrinsic value. Nobody cares if you are sleeping on the sidewalk if you are poor, but people would look for you deep in the forest if you are rich.

So, how true are those words from my parents? Having gone through some years of struggle from a pitiful state to a secure and comfortable life, I have to say that those teachings does have some truth. Quite a lot of people are selfish and mean, but there are exceptions. I have some friends and one relative who have helped me unconditionally when I was at the lowest point of life and needed help the most. I could never forget that favor and is always seeking a chance to help them back. In fact god have already helped them as they are living happily and have all the things they desire.

Sometimes, it is not always easy to help others as they may take advantage of our generosity. It is because of this that we quite often think a while before rendering assistance.

Most of us have the experience of losing our wallet or purse and have to request small money to go back home. You would certainly meet some people who are generous, caring and helpful and you may also meet some who are objectionable and rude. It is experience like these that shapes our mind in helping others in times of need.

It is during the worst times of your life that you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they are about you.
Reply 2amlittle 2016-6-2 19:09
God will always favor the good guys,and you are a good guy, it is very enjoyable to read your article.
Reply teadrinking 2016-6-2 20:57
Wherever we are at, there are do be some people will give us a hand.

The current social phenomena in the mainland does have severe material pursuit. We find it hard to see people who are willing to share and teat with other nicely. The is the condition presently we can not have it changed right now.

It is always lucky to meet some warm people who help us without payment. I am also feel it ok so long as if I can provide some guys who are surely to need a help. We are living the same planet.
Reply sweetolive 2016-6-3 10:23
sunnyv: My parents have always told me that I would be facing a realistic and material world when I enter society and start working. Nobody would send you fir ...
It seems your mum is a nice lady full of wisdom, not everyone as lucky as you because you have such a smart Mum who can teach you about life, and Mum’s influence is very important for developing the personality of a child to be a kind person or a nasty one when they grow up as an adult.

It is true, in this material world, you will see  nasty and mean people everywhere, actually I have met all sorts of kind  people in my life both in China and Australia. One day, I saw a quote posted by that Malaysian girl I mentioned in the article: Write your sad times in sand, write your good times in stone.  Yes, we won’t be happy if we stuck with one bad feeling by ignoring all the good and kind people surrounded with.

Sometimes people take granted of your kindness, instead of appreciation for your help, if you can’t satisfy them at some point, they may hate you, say bad thing behind you. Then It’s better leave them alone ASAP, it’s definitely not worth wasting time spending time with them.

I know in this society, sometimes , you really don’t know who’s looking for the real help for a small money or just being too lazy for a surviving skill on the street begging for endless cash, that’s too bad.

Only if you have experienced worst situation, you learn how to appreciate what you have at the moment, and appreciation is the key for happiness.
Reply sweetolive 2016-6-3 10:24
2amlittle: God will always favor the good guys,and you are a good guy, it is very enjoyable to read your article.
Thank you very much for your nice words, I am not sure if you are a Christian or not, as far as I know most of them are really really rice. The lovely Malaysian girl in the article is one of them. I don’t have any religion though, but I am trying to bring good value to the society.
Reply sweetolive 2016-6-3 10:24
teadrinking: Wherever we are at, there are do be some people will give us a hand.

The current social phenomena in the mainland does have severe material pursuit. ...
You seems a very nice guy who can offer help to others.
It is all the same, no matter in Australia or China, there are someone friendly, someone are cold.

Some nice people in China are too scared to help people out because they don’t know who is a real one or a fake one.

But if there’s no trustworthy, no kindness, no care in this world. No matter how rich you are, you won’t feel truly happiness.

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