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A follower made a comment on my blog:
Mine was broken before. And I'm still cannot get through it last for more than ten years. I know time is the best way to help me forget it. But it's really hard. Even other relationships cannot help me get through it. That's why I'm keeping alone.
After I had read the comment, I was shocked: “What? Ten years, you still can’t get over it, are you serious?”
I do understand you are a responsible, good man and a true friend, but how about yourself?
You need a life unless you are not interested in a girl because have more important things to do, and you feel fulfilled without one, that’s all right, no one could say anything, that’s your choice.
However, if you tell me you are afraid of starting a new relationship because of past bad experience, then I must let you know, please forget about it, it’s gone, start a new life from today with enthusiasm.
You should try different ones until finding a girl or a boy who suits you the most.
My story
In1990s, it was very traditional in China; I’ve taken a hint "A good girl is supposed to marry a guy she meets at the first time. A girl is inferior if she loses her virginity."
For being a good girl, I married my husband though I was not prepared enough. Fortunately, he’s a gentleman; he is the one who knows me, and I am the only one put on his mind.
But that time I took his care as granted, I was never happy even he treated me like a princess.
Instead, I was picking on him: "He is not very handsome, he doesn’t earn big money, and he can’t make my life better."
I focused on his weakness rather than strengths, which made me angry and discontent.
You know before I met husband, I didn’t know other men very much, because had no comparison, and I always thought others are much better.
It was until I have been in Australia, left husband taking care of a daughter in China.
I experienced life and met different friends; then I can see the best part of husband:
"He’s a great photographer for taking photos of me; he’s a very responsible father for our daughter, and trustworthy, whatever I request him to do, he will try his best to help me out immediately."
Previously, I used to ignore him, I was a bit greedy: “You see, Helen’s husband, a CEO earn 1 million CNY a year, Laura’s husband bought a three bedroom apartment in the best area of Shanghai.”
“Look at you, a stupid idiot, how much money you can earn for being an artist? A maid can do housework and pick up a kid if you are rich enough. You are useless.” I was never satisfied with him.
After many years in Australia, I am becoming independent, and so many things happened to me. I realize a rich, handsome man doesn’t mean everything.
A successful, busy man
It’s terrific to marry a successful person; however, he might have no time for you: “Sorry, I can’t talk to you now, 5 minutes, only 5 minutes.”
A girl meets a man who doesn't wanna spend time with her, no matter how rich, that’s not the right one unless the girl cares about money more than mutual understanding with care.
A handsome man
A girl loves a handsome man.
Wow, he’s my prince. He looks exactly like a movie star with the beautiful body, very attractive.
She’s got a lot of satisfaction from him.
However, he doesn’t work hard, sometimes he can’t afford to pay the rent: “Darling, may I borrow AUD600 please, trust me, I will give it back to you tomorrow once I get paid.”
“Sure, that’s not a problem.” The girl loves the handsome man with no doubt as she believes him.
But the lovely girl waited, waited, and asked for the money back, since then the handsome man disappeared; he has found another girl.
If a girl has unlimited money for this man, then he might be her choice.
a God among men
Eventually, a girl meets a god among men; he’s full of self-confident, he’s wealthy and generous, talkative and caring, he’s an ideal boyfriend; all girls love him.
After a while, the girl broke with her boyfriend: “It cannot deny that he is a lady-killer, and he is my dreamed one.”
But her boyfriend is a careless man; one girl can’t satisfy him, he needs to lot of beautiful girls.
Girls, would you like to share him with others? Probably, that’s not your choice
There are so many types; apparently, nobody is what you imagine- a perfect one.
Please don’t be panic, if you fail on a girl or a boy, that doesn’t mean you are a loser, that’s because you haven’t found the right one.
Just experience life as much as you can, treasure the time being together and learn things from each other.
An ideal girl or a boy is not what you can predict; you have to try different ones, there’s no best one, you can only find the one who suits you the most;
On the other hand, if you have never experienced life, even you meet an ideal one, might still don’t know appreciate and think others are better because you have no comparison.
Only if you have failed many times, then you will be satisfied with the one you choose.
You are no longer looking for a person from other people’s eyes: a handsome, rich one. You know which is the best for you.
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Post comment Comment (8 replies)
- Reply wangjide01
- It's so long an article. You'll find money, work, appearance , even love is not so important after ten or twenty years. a couple which we can take care each other , can do ourselves in front of he/she, a good communication, and have the same value will have a better life.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- some one said that before you meet the angle，devil always come infront of，so if you have already met the devil，that means yourangle is on the way!
- Reply teadrinking
- The one with the right one which makes the two together. It is not easy to meet that kind of person, but we still believe that one is right there waiting us and we have to be patient. We just can not cater for others' view and surrend to the old fashioned tradition.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Money is not everything, if you meet the right person, no matter he is rich or poor, please cherish him.
- Reply sweetolive
- agree, you are right, you seem very experienced, thanks :D
wangjide01: It's so long an article. You'll find money, work, appearance , even love is not so important after ten or twenty years. a couple which we can take ca ...
- Reply sweetolive
- love your positive attitude , thanks :D
lijuanandrea: some one said that before you meet the angle，devil always come infront of，so if you have already met the devil，that means yourangle is on the way! ...
- Reply sweetolive
- yes, I believe if you are patient enough, you will meet the right one :D
teadrinking: The one with the right one which makes the two together. It is not easy to meet that kind of person, but we still believe that one is right there wait ...
- Reply sweetolive
- absolutely, we will do what you suggest, thanks :D
shirleyytt2010: Money is not everything, if you meet the right person, no matter he is rich or poor, please cherish him.
