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Nowadays, marvelous people are concerned about a thing-face. I'm not referring to the organ that we show on the outside. It's actually a matter of reputation and feelings. As we know, face can be seen as a long-lasting culture in our nation. Funny stories about face can be picked up anywhere in the long history. Since face has become part of our life, that how we treat it can lead to different results.
More often than not, we care about saving our face too much that we get restricted. We desperately want acception and fame, but meanwhile it brings unnecessary pressure. As a result, negative emotions come to haunt us.
In common with many others, I had similar experiences. It was a chemical class and I was asked to solve a problem on the blackboard. Having no bloody idea how to work it out, I stood in front of the class painfully. After enduring as long as a century's silence and embarassment, I slinked back to my seat. I couldn't help thinking the others must be laughing at me. I was a complete idiot and I lost my face. In the next few days I avoided classmates' eyesight because I was afraid to see their scorn. Until one day I happened to know that other classmates didn't know the answer, either. What's more, they have already forgotten that day's incident. It's just me troubling myself the whole time!
From then on, I realized that others don't pay as much attention as you imagine to you. Face is unequal to dignity or ability. So long as you are satisfied with yourself, you won't lose face. So, focus on perfecting yourself. So forget about the ridiculous face.
lovingfun: Sometimes caring about saving face will help us to make a disipline as well as to behave ourselves better, but too much caring will bring us enormous ...
qingmang: wow!excellent an essay!Chinese share this tradition of face-caring attitude,and even to an over concerned state they want to have their face( ...
LiliBoom: hahaha,I have such expericence like yours,at that time ,I thought everyone would laugh at me and I lost my face ,but after some time ,I found I think ...
FairyHY: Take it easy, my girl. That is all right that we are not able to answer the teachers' questions. Answering question is a chance to challenge ourselves ...
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