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Yesterday, a girl of my acquaintance greeted me on the Weichat. After talking something unimportant, she asked me to lend her some money.
In accordance with her description, she is in Beijing now, and she just arrived there as a single girl soon.
Unfortunately, because of the high consumption in Beijing, she has used out all her money and now, she can't afford a hotel. With no jobs, she has to stay in the internet bar in the night. She promised that she would return the money once she finds a job.
We just met each other twice and didn't keep in touch frequently. what's more, my money is just enough to support the meal fares of this month. I told her I had no extra money to do her a favor, why she didn't call her parents for help, afterwards, she is just eighteen years old. "It's useless." she said,"my parents don't care of me at all."
After that, she turned to be overwhelming furious and sent me a message like that, "why aren't you willing to give me a hand? Do you want to witness me starve to death in Beijing? Let it go, I clearly recognize you this time!"
It's really exasperating. To be honest, we know each other little. For me, I am unable to help her as I lack money too, however, for her, I'm a ruthless girl who just stands by. I don't want to explain more, forget it.
In accordance with her description, she is in Beijing now, and she just arrived there as a single girl soon.
Unfortunately, because of the high consumption in Beijing, she has used out all her money and now, she can't afford a hotel. With no jobs, she has to stay in the internet bar in the night. She promised that she would return the money once she finds a job.
We just met each other twice and didn't keep in touch frequently. what's more, my money is just enough to support the meal fares of this month. I told her I had no extra money to do her a favor, why she didn't call her parents for help, afterwards, she is just eighteen years old. "It's useless." she said,"my parents don't care of me at all."
After that, she turned to be overwhelming furious and sent me a message like that, "why aren't you willing to give me a hand? Do you want to witness me starve to death in Beijing? Let it go, I clearly recognize you this time!"
It's really exasperating. To be honest, we know each other little. For me, I am unable to help her as I lack money too, however, for her, I'm a ruthless girl who just stands by. I don't want to explain more, forget it.
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Post comment Comment (16 replies)
- Reply chuanjiacai
- in life, i met some people like her, it's very hard to decide to Borrow money for them,because most of them lone time no see,long time no touch. i knew you. cheer on， do best for yourself.
- Reply Legolas
- If I were you, I would do the same thing like you. When it comes to money, friendship can be fragile.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- I think you should be more careful about this, after all, you do not know her too much as net friend, if she is unwilling to return back you money, it is a bad thing for you.
- Reply Ccamellia
- I have met the same situation and that was my primary school classmate.But i also did not lend her money. I think We have been different people and i did not trust her. Just let ot go，u Just have ur own principle.
- Reply Yakira
- You told me the girl last night, I think as a girl, she live a hard life, but everyone has his or her ownlife, just take it easy.
- Reply Hui.Zhang
- I am sorry to hear that. She is poor and also bad. I think her difficulty should not be overcome just by you. Maybe she was angry because she can do nothing to change her status. It's not your fault.
- Reply leomon
- If she was one of my friend, I would try to help her, but what make me furious is that when I turned down her, she said something exasperating.
chuanjiacai: in life, i met some people like her, it's very hard to decide to Borrow money for them,because most of them lone time no see,long time no touch. i kne ...
- Reply leomon
- Maybe it depends, I can't help her because I have no extra money, and we are not friends either.
Legolas: If I were you, I would do the same thing like you. When it comes to money, friendship can be fragile.
- Reply leomon
- Yes, I don't know whether what she said is true or not. The most important is , she left me a not good impression at the first time.
shirleyytt2010: I think you should be more careful about this, after all, you do not know her too much as net friend, if she is unwilling to return back you money, it ...
- Reply leomon
- No matter how she will evaluate me , I decide to ignore her, just like your saying.
Ccamellia: I have met the same situation and that was my primary school classmate.But i also did not lend her money. I think We have been different people and i ...
- Reply leomon
- Haha, you didn't forget it yet. maybe she is a little poor, but her attitude is really annoying.
Yakira: You told me the girl last night, I think as a girl, she live a hard life, but everyone has his or her ownlife, just take it easy.
- Reply leomon
- Yes, I am sorry she didn't get enough love and warm from her parents, but she also don't know think at others' point of view, so I will not keep touch with her any more.
Hui.Zhang: I am sorry to hear that. She is poor and also bad. I think her difficulty should not be overcome just by you. Maybe she was angry because she can do n ...
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Actually, you do not have extra money to help her, right ? Just told her the truth, if she can not understand your situation, I think she is not the person to be worthy to make friend with her.
leomon: Yes, I don't know whether what she said is true or not. The most important is , she left me a not good impression at the first time.
- Reply chuanjiacai
- i know your feeling, just do your best. forget her, don't effect yourself
leomon: If she was one of my friend, I would try to help her, but what make me furious is that when I turned down her, she said something exasperating.
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- Reply leomon
- Unfortunately, she failed to understand me, so I ignored her.
shirleyytt2010: Actually, you do not have extra money to help her, right ? Just told her the truth, if she can not understand your situation, I think she is not the p ...
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- Let it be.
leomon: Unfortunately, she failed to understand me, so I ignored her.
