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helicopter parents

Hot 4540 views. 2016-9-8 07:09

<div>There are some parents, being not only guidance, observer and tuition of their children, they may take over everything at the same time, thus we are called helicopter parents.</div><div>Children of these parents usually lack in confidence, discipline and ability to communicate and cooperate, for they have been under the control and orbit for decades.</div><div>Helicopter parents hold a different attitude and theory of children-ducation generally, though they place their children at the first place as any other parents would do. However, they worry too much about the potential danger in every trial that should be done under children' own effort, they count the trial and challenge on themselves as a result, for most of the time they have these dangers done or solved directly, they won't have their children in the trial as long as they figure out the "danger"is acceptable, or unless they feel the shame of blocking out children from learning.</div><div>Helicopter parents' effort is valuable to themselves and children, but it leads to the unnecessary worry and disturbing of the parents,while children may hold the emotion of rebellion and generation gap towards parents, or worse being a servant and slave who carry out everything they were told to.</div>

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Reply Hui.Zhang 2016-9-8 17:14
I think most things should be done in moderation, aren't they? Just like my parents, they ask about my school life from time to time, and they never worry about too much about me    . I feel comfortable and also independent.
Reply yvonneandmandy 2016-9-8 20:16
As parents, their desire and standpoint without any fault.Maybe their methods have something wrong. And i think that i have something in same. Maybe i should change later.learn to respact and behave as the moderation in life
Reply lovingfun 2016-9-8 22:34
Children will learn a lot from their mistakes, as parents, they should teach them from their children's mistakes, on condition that their children will get severe hurts from the for-coming mistakes.
       Children will grow up by themselves, parents just need some discipline, guidance, some patience and understanding, most of all, some persistance.
Reply Adelewy 2016-9-9 17:36
The relationship between parents and children is complicated and disturbing, but we can't ignore the contradiction because we are the closest family.
Reply qingmang 2016-9-10 13:27
Hui.Zhang: I think most things should be done in moderation, aren't they? Just like my parents, they ask about my school life from time to time, and they never w ...
   thats great,a lot of my friends leave their hometown to go to university far away to stay away from their parents'restrain,but in fact they are betray themselves,homesickness attackes sometime
Reply qingmang 2016-9-10 13:55
yvonneandmandy: As parents, their desire and standpoint without any fault.Maybe their methods have something wrong. And i think that i have something in same. Maybe i ...
yeah,sometimes the quarrel just start with some gap of different attitude and view towards certain things,and parents can be stubborn in their method of doing things righ.
Reply qingmang 2016-9-10 13:59
lovingfun: Children will learn a lot from their mistakes, as parents, they should teach them from their children's mistakes, on condition that their children wil ...
Reply qingmang 2016-9-10 13:59
lovingfun: Children will learn a lot from their mistakes, as parents, they should teach them from their children's mistakes, on condition that their children wil ...
Reply qingmang 2016-9-10 14:02
Adelewy: The relationship between parents and children is complicated and disturbing, but we can't ignore the contradiction because we are the closest family.
   this seems like a war of youth,but in fact,as you have said they are families at least,this makes all the struggle of both side meaningful.

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