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Lies Are Not Always Evil

Hot 6782 views. 2016-10-27 18:01

Most of us ever told lies for different reasons. Although some lies are malevolent, there are others that lack evil intent, which are called white lies. To some extends, the harmless lies are inevitable and essential in daily life.

You may find that children can even tell lies. According to the study upon children all over the world, lying is really a typical part of development in a person's life. And good lying requires two key ingredients. The first one is the mind-reading ability. It is the ability to know that different people have different ideas in the same situation and to discriminate between what I know and what you know. The second one is self control. It is the ability to control speech, facial expression and body language. As it turns out, those abilities are essential for people to function well in society. Besides, people need to tell white lies to avoid hurting others' feelings or show respects to them. For example, if my friend invites me to have dinner, I will say the food is wonderful though I dislike it. But do remember not to tell lies which are against morals, for the trust and discipline are necessary in society.

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Reply seraphic 2016-10-27 18:37
everyone would lie in their daily life, sometimes, it was beneficial to themselves, sometimes, it was good for others. i would lie to my parents from time to time,too, but i just do not want them to misunderstand.
Reply Hui.Zhang 2016-10-29 12:17
In my opinion, telling small lies is common for everyone. As you said, so long as those lies are not against moral, they will be allowed. Sometimes, telling a lie can help us get rid of troubles.
Reply 1321015347 2016-10-29 13:25
While white lies are still lies, they could help protect or avoid hurting their feelings. As a necessary social lubricant, I believe that if our moral distinctions are still well-defined, we could tell it.
Reply Pumpkinx 2016-10-29 15:11
In my opinion, lies are necessary for everybody. White lies can give others comfort. And some lies can protect us from being punished. We can't leave lies.
Reply qingmang 2016-10-29 19:23
white lie is necessary sometimes to avoid unnecessary problems, if I am in your boot, I will do the same thing as you
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 21:39
seraphic: everyone would lie in their daily life, sometimes, it was beneficial to themselves, sometimes, it was good for others. i would lie to my parents from  ...
Yes, many of us lied to our parents but we just do not want them to worry about some little things. But sometimes we may be with little selfishness.
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 21:39
seraphic: everyone would lie in their daily life, sometimes, it was beneficial to themselves, sometimes, it was good for others. i would lie to my parents from  ...
Yes, many of us lied to our parents but we just do not want them to worry about some little things. But sometimes we may be with little selfishness.
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 22:03
Hui.Zhang: In my opinion, telling small lies is common for everyone. As you said, so long as those lies are not against moral, they will be allowed. Sometimes, t ...
Telling fibs is not a serious problem. It prevents a person involving in the complex situation.
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 22:34
1321015347: While white lies are still lies, they could help protect or avoid hurting their feelings. As a necessary social lubricant, I believe that if our moral ...
Before we decide not to tell the truth, make sure that lie is not against morals, which is inportant in a man's life.
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 22:38
Pumpkinx: In my opinion, lies are necessary for everybody. White lies can give others comfort. And some lies can protect us from being punished. We can't leave  ...
There are many reasons for why we tell lies. I think it is necessary when we are going to spare one's feeling.
Reply Janice~ 2016-10-29 22:41
qingmang: white lie is necessary sometimes to avoid unnecessary problems, if I am in your boot, I will do the same thing as you
I am glad that you can also tell white lies in that situation. Because we really need to show respect to others in this way.
Reply fengqiwu 2016-11-20 21:28
White lies are useful in our daily life, and all of us tell lies. However, sometime even the white lies can hurt others and make others feel unhappy. We should be careful of everything we said.

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