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The other day, a piece of news broken my heart. ''31st August,about 20:00pm, in a hospital of Yulin, Shaanxi Province, a puerpera jumped out of the building, ending her life.''
I can't help to think about, what can make a woman who will soon become a mother and start her second life chose to suicide and take away the angle soon come to the world. In my personal opinion, it wasn't the pain which is too great to endure, but the disregard of her life that came from the person who should accompany her to spend the latter part of her life.
According to the monitor video and witness, the puerpera knelt twice to beg her husband and mother in-law for a caesarean birth because of pain,this baby was too big to give a normal birth, but they refused, we just can guess the reason was the extra expense to the family and the possible risk to the baby that the caesarean birth surgery could cause.
Baby bearing is the monster-revealing mirror of marriage, only it can make wives clear the family she married into treats her as a new member they will treasure and love, giving her another lough where she can take shelter from a storm, or just a tool being used to give them a baby to carry on the family line and a no-paid houseworker, maybe this woman can also make some money for their housing loan. After all, the baby the woman can bring to the family is the only band connecting the two families, and the only person who has blood relation to the husband's family.
Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply 日轮月晷
- What a sad news it is.The poor mother and the cruel-hearted husband. They are the guilty person who should be blamed.The mom take the big risk to deliver their baby but what he cares is only the infan, which really send a chill to her heart.I guess that's why she chose the extreme way to end her life.
- Reply Roger.Young
- sad,but more is angry,nowadays,what is the most important?money,money are eating everyone's conscience.
- Reply Skrrrrt.
- So girls should wipe their eyes when they decide to give the latter part of her life to a man or a family. :)
日轮月晷: What a sad news it is.The poor mother and the cruel-hearted husband. They are the guilty person who should be blamed.The mom take the big risk to deli ...
- Reply Skrrrrt.
- So girls should wipe their eyes when they decide to give the latter part of her life to a man or a family. :)
日轮月晷: What a sad news it is.The poor mother and the cruel-hearted husband. They are the guilty person who should be blamed.The mom take the big risk to deli ...
- Reply Skrrrrt.
- yep, but human life is supreme forever.
Roger.Young: sad,but more is angry,nowadays,what is the most important?money,money are eating everyone's conscience.
- Reply Cora28
- It is true that baby bearing is the monster-revealing mirror of marriage in China. In some rural areas in China,most people still maintain old-fashiond opinions that women are inferior to men.The only ways can we solve this phenomenon just improve ourselves.
- Reply Skrrrrt.
- And many male chauvinist men still think that women do not need to highly educated or have steady occupations, women should take care of babies and do housework.I just want to say that these absurd words are just fancy of those inept men, isn't it? :)
Cora28: It is true that baby bearing is the monster-revealing mirror of marriage in China. In some rural areas in China,most people still maintain old-fashion ...
- Reply Alisana
- This kind of tragic story may happen every hour and moment. So i think it is necessary for our government and society to take some more effective measures. As vulnerable groups, pregnant women should be protected better. The woman's husband and mother in-law should be punished.
- Reply Skrrrrt.
- Personally speaking, at the time when there must be someone to chose the way to deliver the baby, i think the most suitable person is the puerpera herself.
Alisana: This kind of tragic story may happen every hour and moment. So i think it is necessary for our government and society to take some more effective meas ...
