First Love
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Every one has first love. My first love is quite unique. I knew her through internet and one month later she became my wife.
Before my first love I have been preparing for my post-graduate entrance exam. I tried seven times, seven times failed. The eighth times I finally got high scores,unfortunate I failed either because I was a self-learner and did not bribe the professors. After eight years of sufferings I suddenly found that I was nearly 30 and a wife is a must. But I was so wooden-headed, I did not how to find a girl friend who loves me.I was quite upset and confused.
All my friends and co-workers consoled me for my failure and urged me to find a girl friend, which will minus my sentiments.But the work was so busy that I couldn't manager my time. Finally one of my co-workers suggested me to try my luck on internet. I enrolled in one making-friends website and posted one of my photo in it. Also under the photo I wrote a few lines of simple and sincere self-introduction. One of my friends saw it and said"The self-introduction and photo must be changed. You should paste your smart photo instead of this shabby one,the self-introduction should show your strength and tell the girls what a able man you are!". "But it is not real me" I retorted and declined to make any change.
To my surprise, I received many "inquiries" in the following days. Most of them just say"hello". A girl asserted herself a doctor dropped me long lines and said she appreciates my simple photo and simple self-introduction and would like to make friends with me. She even gave me her cellular phone number. Tentatively I sent her a message. Immediately a replies was received. I sent and received,unconsciously we talked about one hour. Finally she said she was on night shift and need go for working and promised to send me her photo the next day. The next day I waited for a whole day for her photo! Nearly 6:30pm she sent me a messenger and told me that photo was sent to my mailbox. Immediately I openned the computer and mailbox. A simple girl with happy laugh!
In the following days we sent and received message. We talking about work,life,how to cook,how to make noodle,nearly everything! One Saturday evening she told me that she want to see me.I really got surprise. Frankly speaking I was not well-prepared to see a internet friend. However it was not good to decline. I accepted.
At agreed time she appreared. Same as her photo she is a simple girl with long fair. I waved and greeted her."You looks like your photo",this was her first words. Like love film, we really fell in love at first sight. In the past I really can't believe it,but it really happened on us. In a Xiang Dishes restaurant,we ate and chatted happily.
Time slipped away really very fast. It has been one month since we said "hello" via cellular phone. The Spring Festival was coming. I had to go back to hometown to spend festival with my parents. I asked her if she would like to see my parents. She nodded happily.
Every one was preparing for Spring Festival. I and she invited all my friends and classmates to have a dinner in Shenzhen. Of course, it was the first time she to see my friends and classmates. In the dinner we revealed that we would spend Spring Festival in my hometown and would possibly marry after Spring Festival. The news surprised all guests who couldn't believe their ears! Suddenly all congradulations poured in!
After Spring Festival we really married. Simple we are,we did not hold any wedding ceremony. One month is too soon, but it is our first love. All my friends said that I am a lucky guy. In some way, I am a lucky guy. But mostly it contributes to the fact that I am a simple man who don't abuse first love and feeling. Simple man, simple life, real love!