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I had received messages yesterday from my graduated classmates in Wechat. Honestly speaking, I hadn't had any messages from them since I leaved colleage. I was glad, upset and had no idea how to reply. "Just read and smile." I said to myself. They said hi to each other but talked little about their life.Maybe the time changed us a lot. We did not have a common topic.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Yes, when we talk to long lost classmates and old friends, we really don't know what to say and where to start. We are not sure if we should tell them everything about ourselves because we don't know how they would see it and react. This is so unhappy because we don't have much opportunities to contact and if we don't grasp that opportunity, the contact could be lost and the past relationship disappear forever. Such a pity.
Somehow, I found that once I tell them my own life, the failures, disappointments, struggles and the successes, they would would react by telling me about them also. Then we arrange to meet somewhere for tea and talking and joking about how much we have changed since we last met. It is always happy to meet old friends because there is so much to talk about once we break the ice.
- Reply samanthe
- we always say hello to our friend on the wechat , but it's rarely talk about our stuff, just chatting, chatting, maybe distance and time can change something gradually.
- Reply Chuckheng
- Students should keep on contact with each other after graduation, or the relationship will gradually fade.
- Reply xlxlxtt
- Thank you for your comment. It's really a good suggestion for me. Sometimes the ice should be broke by myself. Doing nothing and Saying nothing are not a good idea to change back our friendship.
sunnyv: Yes, when we talk to long lost classmates and old friends, we really don't know what to say and where to start. We are not sure if we should tell them ...
- Reply xlxlxtt
- Yes, wechat is good tool to get the contact, however, it won't get more information about friends' details. Sometimes, we should move on and cherish the friends we contact now.
samanthe: we always say hello to our friend on the wechat , but it's rarely talk about our stuff, just chatting, chatting, maybe distance and time can change s ...
- Reply xlxlxtt
- Yes, I appreciate this idea. Thank you!
moli: You will make some good new friends in the company.
Cheer up!
- Reply xlxlxtt
- Of course, depends on you! Thank you for your comment.
Chuckheng: Students should keep on contact with each other after graduation, or the relationship will gradually fade.
