I have come across a lot of people who feel life is hard for them from childhood to maturity. Girls have to face much more problems than boys. The main complaint seems to be loneliness. studies, friendships between schoolmates, dull schoolife and the need to enter a good university. Friends are often selfish, uncaring and not trustworthy. Upon graduation, people have to face the prosepects of finding a good and secure job and after that comes the need to save money to buy your own house. Most people cannot afford to buy a home anyway, therefore, they have to pay rent and live in undesirable conditions indefinitely. Many have to financial problems due to weak health and spending. There is little money left for healthy recreational and social activities. People also like to compare themesleves with more successful friends and the result is often depression. Everyone has their own luck, direction and success, so why should we compare ourselves with others. People often put on a successul outlook just to impress others. Next comes lovelife and marriage. Parents are often unreasonable demanding that they guy has bought his own home and have a stable job, prefereablly a government job and the girl should be pretty, well educated, homely, obedient and have above average background. Is it really so easy to have all these qualifications? No wonder people are not getting married these days. Our whole life is wasted on struggling, competing and materialism. Really tired. It is easy to say work hard to improve yourself and you will have what you wish. Is that true? It is so easy to say but not so easy done. Does everyone have the ability, support and money to do that? How due you overcome the lack of connections to find a job? How to deal with favouritism in the workplace where your boss promote somebody who has much less ability than you? All these things are normally beyong our ability to resolve. In the end many people end up having a simple, blank, monotonous and lonely life. Why should it be like that? Why does it have to be so hard? Something is wrong with society and customs and it has to be changed.