Invitation for dinner but I had to pay for unknown people
889 views. 2011-6-2 12:04
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A lady friend of mine Judy invited me for dinner. It was to celebrate the 5th anniversary of knowing her boyfriend. She choose the restaurant and told me don't bring any gifts, just come to eat and enjoy the evening. Her boyfriend and her three other friends came too, so there are totally 6 people including me. Four of these people I have never met before and don't know them. It was a happy dinner, we talked and joked happily. At the end of the dinner, my lady friend Judy asked the waiter to bring the bill. The bill for 480 Yuan came and Judy gave it to her boyfriend for payment, however, to everyone's surprise, her boyfriend looked unhappy, got up and went to the bathroom. 5 minutes later he came back and saw the bill still in front of him. I then overheard her boyfriend arguing with Judy that everyone should pay own share and not all he pay. All the other people at the table was surprised because their understanding was that Judy's boyfriend was paying.
Everyone should be told in advance if it is a shared dinner but they did not say so. Everyone looked surprised and was not willing to pay for it. Judy did not have enough money with her and looked angrily at her boyfriend but still he was unwilling to pay. Looks like a big argument would happen between Judy, her boyfriend and others. Just to avoid embarrassing Judy, I took out my wallet and paid for the bill. One week passed and Judy still did not return the money to me. Later I met one of the people who came to the dinner and told her about this. They said this is unreasonable and they offered to get the money back for me. In the end, it was everyone paid for their own share and I got 400 Yuan back.
This is not about money because it was only 480 Yuan and I can afford to pay for it. It is about commonsense, face, respect and honesty. Do you think this is a plan to cheat or because Judy has a lousy boyfriend?