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Marriage requirements - Money, House, Car, Love

Hot 162374 views. 2013-6-21 16:33

What is needed to have a happy marriage?
Money, house, Car or just love is enough?
What do you need to be really happy?



 

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Reply chenze 2013-6-21 18:03
as following,it is wait for you a bounch of things that can't see to do ,live is absolutely money that built of enomic.
Reply Haiena 2013-6-21 18:05
Love first, the remaining house, money can make later after marriage.
Reply Ausfrank 2013-6-21 18:50
The answers are as followed:
1. Ordinary people who get one of four will be happy. The extras are bonuses.
2. Religiosity or religious people who get none will still be happy, sometimes if they get one it will cause unhappy feelings.
3. Rich people who get all of them, may still not be happy.
Now who would you like to be, is totally up to you. As long as you stay happy, your marriage will be satisfied.
Reply 2amlittle 2013-6-21 19:20
it depends on who you choose as your wife or husband, if you choose one who is ambitious then you need money , if you choose one who is not ambitious then you may not need money. and the most important thing is that you two must always be together if you live far away from each other then your love may fade away gradually, I have a neighborhood who with the help of her wife built a apartment but years later they depart because they live in different city and the man fall in love with another woman and at first the woman became mad and cried and shouted days and nights  and said that she will kill her own daughter and all the man' s family. and they lock her in house.
Reply teadrinking 2013-6-21 20:32
money is important, in this world, with no money almost can do nothing, any tough relationship in terms of love will see if it is worthy of maintaining, if a car or a house is needed, we do almost need to see whether the two beloved one will be together by trusting one another.
Reply loly90 2013-6-21 22:45
Life needs wisdom, when you have wisdom, you are clearly know what is necessary to you and what is unnecessary to you, not every people are same like one, they have different ideas about life
Reply Sumingyu 2013-6-22 00:05
What is needed to have a happy marriage?
When the couple concerned are equal and both prize their unity, their family will be full of joys.
Money, house, Car or just love is enough?
It seems to me love only lies in films or stories. In real life, obligations are more important than empty talks of love.  
What do you need to be really happy?
To give up all unrealistic desires and compare with those less fortunate than me.
Reply 2010jj 2013-6-22 13:58
Ausfrank: The answers are as followed:
1. Ordinary people who get one of four will be happy. The extras are bonuses.
2. Religiosity or religious people who get ...
totally agree with you
Reply cestlavie 2013-6-22 14:01
That depends on what you need.
Some couples are poor, but they live a happy life together.
Some are rich, the husband dated with other women outside, their child grew up and they have their own life, even though they still live together, is this what you want? who knows. it's up to you
Reply samanthe 2013-6-22 16:09
Personally,first:i think i will be very happy if i can improve myself step by step,and insist on studying everyday.second:my lovely family have a healthy body,and i can live with them.   money,house,car.those are not important to me compare to my family.once lose one of them,you will never never never refind  him. those Material things can be achieved by your hard working.i miss her very much.     so ,i think LOVE is an extremely crucial to the Marriage.    LOVE can bear every unfair thing in the life.
Reply fairy0612 2013-6-22 21:08
Actually I think it has something to do with your location, like in Beijing as well as in Shanghai, these high expense city, maybe house comes to first. For it is quite hard for a normal people to buy a house, especially the non-native. In some other less-pressure city, maybe house doesn't stand first, at least to me. In my opinion, everyone has his own standard, but everyone has a same mission, that is to live happily. So his choice depends on his mission.
Reply Candy.liu 2013-6-22 21:10
It depends. Different people have different marriage. I think that once we choose it, we should be responsible.
Reply sunnyv 2013-6-22 21:19
My opinion is that first there must true love and affection. That is the foundation of a long term marriage relationship. True love can conquer everything. The need for material things would appear soon after the marriage. Without a house, there would be no secure feeling. There should be some savings for emergency use. The family should have the basic necessities for a comfortable home.
Both should have the strength and ability to go through all sorts of crises that would come up during the marriage.

To put it simply, love comes first and building the family comes second and survival of the marriage requires the effort of both.
Reply zhouying2012 2013-6-24 14:48
sunnyv: My opinion is that first there must true love and affection. That is the foundation of a long term marriage relationship. True love can conquer everyt ...
I think so.
Reply Tange 2013-6-25 19:45
loly90: Life needs wisdom, when you have wisdom, you are clearly know what is necessary to you and what is unnecessary to you, not every people are same like  ...
so what is your answer ?  which one listed at first :  among the love , money , house , car ..
Reply Tange 2013-6-25 19:48
samanthe: Personally,first:i think i will be very happy if i can improve myself step by step,and insist on studying everyday.second:my lovely family have a heal ...
the reasonable lady impressed us by the truth of marriage ...
the kinded-heart is so beautiful ..
Reply loly90 2013-6-25 21:59
Tange: so what is your answer ?  which one listed at first :  among the love , money , house , car ..
I'm learning to be a Christian. God has four main good qualities, love, wisdom, power and fair. Love comes first. And why we live in the world? Love and to be loved. Some people even live a long life, but they still don't know what is love and how to love. One candle can bring light to one table, but sumless candles can lignt up the whole house.
Reply yukiii 2013-8-13 16:26
happiness is an attitude, not a condition    love ,money,house,car...they are just the conditions  ,but when we are satiated  with all of them, we even fell not satiated  ,there is a lot  lure
Reply sunnyv 2013-8-13 16:35
yukiii: happiness is an attitude, not a condition    love ,money,house,car...they are just the conditions  ,but when we are satiated  with all of them, we eve ...
   Agree.
Reply AthurShining 2013-8-24 09:25
Life is versatile and there are various people who live for different purposes.

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