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WHAT IS LIFE AND WHAT IS SUCCESS
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Today is a holiday so we will talk about what is life and what success means.
The best thing about writing here is to discover that most of us are facing similar problems, our daily routines, concerns and worries are quite similar. I write and respond to friends here because I know I am helping them effectively to overcome life challenges and in English.
Most of us are eager to improve ourselves, change our lives, make the best use of time, clear obstacles and be a successful and productive person. All these things can be done and realized if we do it right and positively. Therefore, I urge my friends here never to give up, no matter how hard it is. Your effort would most likely be rewarded and useful for your future. Learn and experience whatever you can. Good English opens a lot doors for you so be good at it. I respond to blogs to demonstrate to them how to use words correctly and powerfully. To my amazement friends here knows how to pick up those words and use them in their blogs perfectly. I am really amazed that my friends can write so well in English here on such tricky and touchy topics. It is not easy, even for a native English speaker like myself. I don't know how our clever friends can do it so well, so allow me to commend you all for your efforts and success.
I was born as a native English speaker and English is my main language. I am here to help others and not to learn a language. Cantonese is my second language which I speak well too. I am British born in China (My friends call me CBB Chinese Born British) and have lived in China for my entire life and would remain here forever.
Like most of you, I have started out with nothing, no money, no job, uncertain future, not sure where to start and what to do to be successful. Everything seemed so difficult and out of reach. I have seen the worst people you can imagine and the best you ever expect to meet. I have been through the most painful, depressive days. I have been ignored, sidelined, neglected and rejected. I had no experience in anything so people see me as ignorant and sometimes stupid. I have been pushed to a corner and wanted to escape from it all. I have been beaten by thugs on the streets just because I cannot pay money in time. If you see a guy with a deep scar near at the left elbow, that is Sunny. All these negative and disappointing things are the energy which supported me. Finally, I said to myself, what the hell is all this? Why should I have to suffer like this? What is it that others can do that I cannot do. I am normal, have a sound mind, good health and energetic. I must jump out of this hell and find my way to success. Thereon, I kept a sharp eye on chances, learnt whatever I could, gained experience, saved up some money even when I have a low salary. I was patient and persistent. Finally the chance came and I started my own business using the things I learnt and accumulated before. From then on, my income increased by 10 and 20 folds and it kept increasing till I was financially secure and only then I could slow down and relax. Today, I have no worries about money and I am independent. Without all these bitterness, I would not be able to taste and appreciate my success.
OK, so what is like to be successful after hard work and painful struggles? I have always believed that you can never enjoy life unless you have earned your own privilege. Harvest has no meaning unless you have sown the seeds yourself. You won't have confidence unless you have gone through hardship and scathing struggles. You don't know how tasty water is until you are about to die of thirst. That is how it is.
I am now a confident person now because I have already gone through all those difficulties and painful struggles. There is nothing I need to fear because I have tasted the worst in life. I have tried so many different things. I have finally sailed the uncertain ocean and landed on the shores of the land of happiness and self sufficiency. I am now free and do not have to report to anyone except my own family. Nobody can threaten me and I have more than sufficient self power to handle them in my own capacity. I am also capable to returning favors to all those who have helped me before. I never forget when anyone has done me a favor, even small favors. I have no money worries and can survive for the rest of my life easily. I am willing for forgive those who have hurt me. I am still young, although not youthful and have excellent health. I can go off to any holiday I like because it is my own company. I have hand my business to others to run and I can enjoy life. To most people, this would be an ideal life, Yes, it is but life can never be so perfect. Something could turn up unexpectedly. Nevertheless, nobody knows what can happen tomorrow, so I continue to learn whatever I can to safeguard my future. At present, most of my time is taken up by following up and clearing things which I neglected in the past when I was busy. I am not trying to show off my success, but I am saying these things because some friends are wondering what kind of a person I am, what kind of life I live and I seem to be a mystery to some the friends here.
To all my friends who are are struggling, unhappy, disappointed or dissatisfied at present, please be assured that god never give us a dead end road. Everybody has his/her own advantages or self positive power. Upgrade yourself now while you are waiting for opportunities. Learn things which you know would be useful to you in future. Keep your eyes and mind alert and open for opportunities. Everybody has his chance in life. Be ready for your fruitful day. I would remain your faithful friend here. Good luck to you all. Take care.
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Electronic translation:
(I may have used some unusual words so here is a rough translation for those who need to read in Chinese)
Sorry for the mistakes in the electronic translation:
电子翻译：（我可能已经使用了一些不寻常的话让这里是一个粗略的翻译为那些谁需要阅读中国
今天是假日，所以我们将讨论什么是生活，什么成功，意味着。
关于这里写的最好的事情是发现，我们大多数人都面临着类似的问题，我们的日常生活，关注和担忧是非常相似的。我写和回应朋友在这里，因为我知道我帮助他们有效地克服生活中的挑战和英语。
我们大多数人都渴望提高自己，改变我们的生活，让时间，扫清障碍的最佳利用，并成为一个成功的和富有成效的人。所有这些事情可以做，并意识到如果我们这样做是正确的和积极的。因此，我敦促我的朋友在这里永远不会放弃，不管有多难。你的努力将最有可能得到回报，并为你的未来有用。了解和经验，尽你所能。良好的英语会打开很多门对你那么好它。我对博客回应展示给他们如何正确而有力用文字。令我惊讶的朋友在这里知道如何拿起这些话，并利用它们在自己的博客完美。我真的很惊讶，我的朋友们可以用英语写的这么好这里就这么棘手和敏感的话题。这是不容易的，即使以英语为母语像我这样的。我不知道怎么我们聪明的朋友可以做的这么好，所以请允许我赞扬大家的努力和成功。
我出生在一个母语是英语，英语是我的主要语言。我在这里帮助别人，而不是学习语言。广东人是我，我说话也很好的第二语言。我的英国出生在中国（我的朋友都叫我CBB中国出生的英国），并已在中国生活了我的整个生活，并会留在这里，直到永远。
你们大多数人一样，我已经开始了一无所有，没有钱，没有工作，前途渺茫，不知道从哪里开始以及怎样做才能成功。一切都显得那么困难，而且遥不可及。我已经看到了你能想象的最糟糕的人，最好的你指望满足。我经历过最痛苦的，压抑天。我一直忽略了，靠边站，忽视和拒绝。我在任何事情没有经验，所以人们把我的无知和愚蠢有时。我一直推到一个角落，并希望这一切逃跑。我一直在殴打在街头暴徒只是因为我付不起钱的时间。如果你看到在附近的左肘了深深的伤痕一个人，那就是阳光。所有这些消极和失望的事情都在支持着我的能量。最后，我对自己说，这到底是怎么回事？我为什么要遭受这样吗？它是什么，别人能做到的，我不能这样做。我是正常的，要有健全的头脑，身体健康，精力充沛。我必须跳出这个地狱，找到我的成功之路。就此，我一直在机会一个敏锐的眼光，学会了什么我可以，积累了经验，攒了一些钱，即使我有一个低的工资。我是耐心和坚持不懈。最后的机会来了，我用我学到的东西和以前积累开始自己的事业。从那时起，我的收入增加了10和20倍，并继续增加，直到我是财政上的保障，只有然后我可以放慢脚步，放松。今天，我都不愁钱和我无关。如果没有这些痛苦，我就不能去品味和欣赏我的成功。
好了，什么样的是经过艰苦努力和痛苦的斗争取得成功？我一直相信，你永远无法享受生活，除非你已经赢得了自己的特权。收获已经没有任何意义，除非你已经播下了种子自己。你不会有信心，除非你通过艰难和严厉的斗争都没有了。你不知道水是多么的美味，直到你即将渴死。这是怎么回事。
现在是一个自信的人，我现在是因为我已经经历了所有这些困难和痛苦的斗争已经走了。没有什么，我需要担心，因为我尝到了最糟糕的生活。我已经尝试了很多不同的东西。我终于驶向不确定的海洋，落在了幸福和自给自足的土地海岸。我现在自由，没有，除了我自己的家庭报告给任何人。没有人能威胁到我，我已经绰绰有余了自我的能力处理他们在我自己的能力。我也有能力返回好处给所有那些谁之前，已经帮助了我。我永远不会忘记，当有人已经做了我的忙，甚至帮点小忙。我没钱烦恼，并能为我的余生容易生存。我愿意为赦免那些谁伤害了我。我还年轻，虽然没有青春，并具有良好的健康。我可以去上任何我喜欢的，因为这是我自己的公司的假期。我有手我的生意给别人跑，我可以享受生活。对大多数人来说，这将是一个理想的生活，是的，它不过是人生永远无法做到完美。东西会意外打开了。然而，没有人知道明天会发生什么，所以我继续学习我所能来保护我的未来。目前，我大部分时间是采取了由跟踪和清除的东西，我忽略过去，当我正忙着。我不是想炫耀我的成功，但我说这话的时候，因为有些朋友想知道什么样的人，我，我住什么样的生活，而我似乎是一个谜的一些朋友在这里。
我所有的朋友谁是挣扎，不满，失望或不满现在，请您放心，上帝从来不给我们一个死路一条。每个人都有他/她自己的优势和自身的积极力量。立即升级自己，而你在等待机会。了解哪些你知道将是有益的，你在未来的事情。睁大你的眼睛和心灵警报，并打开机会。每个人都有自己的人生机会。准备好你的富有成果的一天。我会留在这里您忠实的朋友。祝你好运所有。照顾自己。
Post comment Comment (15 replies)
- Reply admin
- You life and your experience really inspire us, Sunny. I wish I could be as successful as you are in the near future. Achieve financial freedom, enjoy a peaceful life, do my favorite things and try my best to help others.
- Reply teadrinking
- You have done pretty much well. We are on the way to better ourselves and I hope that you can still go on with us.
- Reply sunnyv
- Oh... So nice to hear from you admin and noted your humble words. You are already successful because of you are truly resourceful being in stocks trading and being the administrator of this website. I enjoy communicating with friends here, helping them and enriching my own knowledge. Wish you the best.
admin: You life and your experience really inspire us, Sunny. I wish I could be as successful as you are in the near future. Achieve financial freedom, enjoy ...
- Reply sunnyv
- Thanks. You are one of the most active and best writers here. Your blog have high readership and you have been so nice to respond to friends too. Hope you have a fruitful and pleasant time ahead.
teadrinking: You have done pretty much well. We are on the way to better ourselves and I hope that you can still go on with us.
- Reply lovingfun
- You are more lucky than me at present, but I do believe that , my day will coming sooner or later. During these days, I have made a trip to Tibet, and now I feel better, and need try my best to hold my chance.
Glad to read what you wrote , and I get trength from it, I will keep moving no matter what I will meet.
- Reply sunnyv
- Don't worry my friend. This might be difficult times for you at present but in fact accumulating bouncing power. The lower you hit, the higher you bounce back up. You have determination and willpower, so all you need is the slot to start with. You will have your chance eventually.
Wow.. Tibet? So how was it? You went by train or plane? Tell us about your trip. No wonder didn't see you around these days. I always wanted to go there but as a foreigner, it is not so easy for me to go unless join tour group. Despite being born in China and lived here my whole life, I still need a 'visa' to go to mainland China. I asked them whether I am a resident or tourist? They answered ''both''. Smart guys ain't they? Wanna knock them off. Happy holidays.
- Reply samanthe
- This blog really inspired me, you pay and you are paid.
Each man is the architect of his own fate, and wish all people the best
- Reply carolyayayaya
- Yeah, "god never gives us a dead end road", and sufferings are blessings.
- Reply Candy.liu
- Your experience is very precious wealth in your life. You deserve to own what you have now. Wish you everything go well in coming days, and hope you be here accompany with us all the way .
- Reply Lucykiwi
- Sunny, you are really a good man. when you reply my first blog, I thought that you are a English learner too. After read this paper, I really moved that you are so successful and seems busy enough, but you still come here to help us sincerely. I really appreciate your kind mind and your story truly inspired me. Nowadays, I am in my tough time, but as you say, god never gives us a dead end road. I will keep positive and try my best to upgrade myself, waiting for my opportunity patiently.
- Reply sunnyv
- Oh, so nice of you to read my blog on my life.
Lucykiwi: Sunny, you are really a good man. when you reply my first blog, I thought that you are a English learner too. After read this paper, I really moved th ...
Life is a journey, not a destination, so we all have to go on.
- Reply sweetolive
- Hi, Sunnyv:
I am deeply touched by your dramatic story . I guess the hardest part was the first step you made-- how to get of out the wood with your strong will ,and put into action in a persistent manner, eventually you made up your ideal life.
Yes , you are absolutely right, if you have never experienced difficulties in your previous years , you would not have treasured the success you achieved...
Now you are on your new adventure by using your English background trying to help Chinese encourage them to conquer barriers in both English language and their mind.. So that they may realize their dreamed life as you did...
Thank you for your help and keep staying in the blog... :D
- Reply sweetolive
- Hi, Sunnyv:
I am deeply touched by your dramatic story . I guess the hardest part was the first step you made-- how to get of out the wood with your strong will ,and put into action in a persistent manner, eventually you made up your ideal life.
Yes , you are absolutely right, if you have never experienced difficulties in your previous years , you would not have treasured the success you achieved...
Now you are on your new adventure by using your English background trying to help Chinese encourage them to conquer barriers in both English language and their mind.. So that they may realize their dreamed life as you did...
Thank you for your help and keep staying in the blog... :D
- Reply sunnyv
- You know, sometimes when a sad experience is shared and acknowledged by others it is a great consolation. When others appreciate the bright side of the experience, it is a great support and encouragement. Add them together and we have a understanding friend. Thanks so much for your words dear. Hope you have a happy and contented life.
sweetolive: Hi, Sunnyv:
I am deeply touched by your dramatic story . I guess the hardest part was the first step you made-- how to get of out the wood with your ...
