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My View on Arranged Marriage and Free Love

1006 views. 2010-11-15 20:32 |

This is my writing composition which I  have tried  my best to do it.well. Therefore, I want to share with everyone ,and I hope you can enjoy it and give me some advices or comments. Thank you !

Currently, there is a widespread concern over the issue of arranged marriage and free love. Some think that a marriage arranged by parents is better than a love match, while others hold the opposite view. They confirmly believe that free love is more suitable and fashionable for the 21st century young people. As for me, I agree to the latter.

First of all, a love match contains a deep true love. They are easier to understand and accept each other. And for love, they are willing to change themselves and do everything for another half no matter how hard it is. However, an arranged marriage is brought together by their parents. They may even haven’t meet each other before until they are married. And they do this not out of their own free will but for family obligation or some external factors. People often say that "Marriage is love and obligation". This may be true for a love match, however, when there is no love existing in two people; obligation for marriage is just a heavy burden.

 Secondly, in a love match, your another half is the type of person you want and love, but in a marriage arranged by parents it may not. Nowadays, with the rapid development of society, the new urging generations after 80s or 90s have a great gap with their old 50s or 60s parents in many aespects, such as clothing, life style, and ways of making friends and so on. Parents hardly know what their child really like. For example, if your parents find an honest industry and dependable boy who they think is suitable for you, but in your mind, he is very stupid obstinate and old fashioned and is totally opposite to you. Do you still willing to marry to him? Or do you think you will live happily after getting married? Of course no

 At last, according to experts' reports, an arranged marriage is more likely to get divorced than free love. One of the reasons is that an arranged couple is easier to have conflict and fight with each other. Moreover, when facing a dangerous situation, a love match can sacrifice all even their life for each other and stuck faithfully to him or her through thick and thin, but a couple without love are more likely to broke up and divorced, as an old Chinese saying goes:"The couple did actually like the two birds of the same forest that flew away separately when the disaster came."

 In a word, I think a love match is better than a marriage arranged by parents. We are authorized the freedom of choosing life partner. By this, we will learn how to pursue, how to love. But don’t forget our parents’ wise advices; after all, they have more experience than us.

Post comment Comment (4 replies)

Reply J-Yinlein 2010-11-20 15:08
i would never let my parents involve in this !
Reply 338522 2010-11-20 20:03
so long ,I am dizzy
Reply shelley5115 2010-11-21 10:00
Oh, I'm sorry for that!  Anyway ,thanks for you reading!I'm really happy!
Reply shelley5115 2010-11-21 10:03
HEHE, really? I'm happy to know that! It seems a little difficult for me!

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