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just now my dear dad phoned me,ordered mr back Shanghai to find an position like a job with terriable tone shouting at me.
fear!!! i know he just cares me a lot.but i don't give up to working. the only thing i want to do is to use this holiday to visit some friends. from 2days ago to now. originally i plan to back tomorrow . no saying to my dad, i don't know why he was so mad and anger to shout at me and abuse me. yeah. i admit thah in this term of finding a job i'v experienced a lots of failure..sometimes i'm sopposed that he just wants to abandon me .
even though the fact is that he wants me to be more mature and learn lots of social skills without family's supportation. i see!!! i know his thought and i'm tying my best to do what he wants me to do. just . just my speed is lower than others maybe. how...i just relax just less than 3 days. who say i only play.enjoy.no passion for working... friends : how sad i am !!!!can u understand my painness? what should i think of it?from which point should i deserve to deal with this question?
fear!!! i know he just cares me a lot.but i don't give up to working. the only thing i want to do is to use this holiday to visit some friends. from 2days ago to now. originally i plan to back tomorrow . no saying to my dad, i don't know why he was so mad and anger to shout at me and abuse me. yeah. i admit thah in this term of finding a job i'v experienced a lots of failure..sometimes i'm sopposed that he just wants to abandon me . even though the fact is that he wants me to be more mature and learn lots of social skills without family's supportation. i see!!! i know his thought and i'm tying my best to do what he wants me to do. just . just my speed is lower than others maybe. how...i just relax just less than 3 days. who say i only play.enjoy.no passion for working... friends : how sad i am !!!!can u understand my painness? what should i think of it?from which point should i deserve to deal with this question? Need your suggestions for balancing myself. help help!!!!
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- Reply touringchina
- you mean your dad ordered you to do sth you dislike at the very time?Let's send him one right back...
As adult,you deserve the right to determine what you do without interfere.You should convice your dad to stand on your side,if you can,you have surely learnt some social skills.
- Reply linda@crab
- touringchina: you mean your dad ordered you to do sth you dislike at the very time?Let's send him one right back...no. sorry for mr not clear my thought. the time i want to relax the time he put presure on me to do the other thing that is good for myself. just why? always in the time i want to play or do other things..confuse!!! actually he is right he teaches me how to adapt this society and survive, only this point is that i dislike namely i don't like this society.....u know my meaning now?.......As adult,you deserve the right to determin
- Reply touringchina
- linda@crab: no. sorry for mr not clear my thought. the time i want to relax the time he put presure on me to do the other thing that is good for myself. just whyapples and oranges.You respect your dad and obey his kind orders happily,and you do want him to understand your feeling and this is definitely not disrespect his fame in your mind.Your dad may be happy hearing your words.
- Reply linda@crab
- touringchina: apples and oranges.You respect your dad and obey his kind orders happily,and you do want him to understand your feeling and this is definitely not disbut the fact is that he hates me now, mad and cray for me ......
i don't want him hurt from my deep heart.but i as a fooler than girl need time and find my room in this society.i don't know if i adapt this world or not...but i'm sure i can catch this fast speed tempo gradually. i promise
- Reply touringchina
- linda@crab: but the fact is that he hates me now, mad and cray for me ......You with the help of your dad will achieve everything you want .Take it easy,and do not pressure yourself to much.Your dad is mad at you?definitely not your fault,you are not to blame for it.i don't want him hurt from my deep heart.but i as a fooler than girl need time
May God with you.
- Reply linda@crab
- touringchina: You with the help of your dad will achieve everything you want .Take it easy,and do not pressure yourself to much.Your dad is mad at you?definitely no
ok. easy, calm down i know
- Reply lover5200
- I had the same experience with you I faced different kinds of faiure however you know a good job is not easy in today competive soociety ,and your father is just want you to be safe and healthy no matter when you find a job
- Reply Sharing
- i have to say we are too young to adapt the complex world.at the same time,we have to learn how to take care ourselves and acquire some living skills.nobody hates you besides your dear father.in my mind,we must respect our beloved parents as they are the unique person who love us selflessly.what should you do is to communicate with your father and tell his you mind.
though i'm familiar you,i wish that what i have said could be useful to you.
- Reply linda@crab
- Sharing: i have to say we are too young to adapt the complex world.at the same time,we have to learn how to take care ourselves and acquire some living skills.completely it works. thanks a lot. i know he is right and always in our side......maybe i cann't live up to their expectation.but we all need to improve and make some progress....
- Reply linda@crab
- lover5200: I had the same experience with you I faced different kinds of faiure however you know a good job is not easy in today competive soociety ,and your fat fighting
- Reply linda@crab
- lover5200:
- Reply Sharing
- life is full of ups and down,so please remember to encourage yourself when confronted difficulties.Otherwise,pratice is the sole certerion of testing truth,so do remember to do the things you have already promised.
- Reply linda@crab
- Sharing: life is full of ups and down,so please remember to encourage yourself when confronted difficulties.Otherwise,pratice is the sole certerion of testingright. sometimes pressure spurs us up and go go go
- Reply Sally_Fan
- You say you know your father just care for you, why don't you express your mind to father, tell him your worry and your thinking.
- Reply kezaer
- I can totally understand your feelings as it recalls me the scene when my father scorned me after I failed in doing sth.
I don't think you need a futher discussion any more. Because your father is still in anger. The most thing you should do now is to fix the job up. You have to prove youself to your father.
Well, as grown up, we have to take the responsibility lest the elders be worry about us.
- Reply linda@crab
- Sally_Fan: You say you know your father just care for you, why don't you express your mind to father, tell him your worry and your thinking.i see. i know how to do now. actually everytime i quarrel with him,just keep quiet and give each other some time to relax and calm down,we go well with each other again
he smiles i smile
- Reply linda@crab
- kezaer: I can totally understand your feelings as it recalls me the scene when my father scorned me after I failed in doing sth.yes, cann't agree with u any more. i love my father like he loves me. quarrels are inevitable for every family,especially for between son or daughter and dad or mom. in our heart we all know they both care us more than other else. they give us suggestions more often,maybe we are not mature than what they expect us to be,so twists raise up. so i will try my best to prove myself and become more and more maturity. and they believe us all the way....
I don't think you need a fu
