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Every one has to experience happiness,unhappiness,difficulties. I think ,in the whole lifetime, one is consistently doing two things ,being faced with problems,and finding ways to solve them. As I grow up, I gradually find, most of the problems I have met are solved by myself. Even though,somebody is there for you to help you, it is only transient,he or she could be always there ready to help. So I should depend on myself,to try all the methods to make myself strong enough to handle the problems. But I am not that strong,Sometimes, I feel I couldn't go on ,I really want to give up.Many times, I feel inferior.I am not clever,not smart,not talkative,I really don't know what I am good at, I am at a loss with a blank mind. I have done a lot ,but I don't know why the efficiency is not satisfiable. The biggest problem I am faced up is I do not have a clear mind, a specific logic. All are messed up. Why is it so hard for me to successfully finish one task? I am more like an idot. 
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- Reply sunnyv
- It’s no secret that there is a serious lack of self-confidence all around us. All this is due to huge competition pushing people to inhumane limits. People are fake, uncaring and selfish. The TV media, news, exaggerated rags to richness stories, disparity, unfairness, lack of real love, high divorce rates, failed relationships, unloving homes or excessive comparison.
The sad truth is that we live in a culture where low self-esteem, lack of confidence, insecure seems to be normal.
Actually, everybody has his/her own strong and positive sides. There must be something we have which is better than others, but we just don't notice it. We feel that everyone seems better than us because we tend to compare ourselves with others blindly. Nobody is inferior as long as you are a normal healthy person.
Everyone improves with knowledge and experience, so do you.
Look forward with confidence. Don't let the noise all around you drown your inner thoughts. You can do whatever others can do. You are no idiot at all and the problem could be you are not well placed or suitable opportunities have not yet arrived.
Try your best to face all the problems with confidence. Should you succeed, well and fine and if not, you have tried your best and gained experience.
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- Reply poorman
- same feeling with sweetapple. I consistly think why I always have no confidence. sometimes confidence suddently become strong, sometimes disappear again. current condition is that not dare to speak english at all, because I always can not understand what opposite side is saying. my listening is very poor, oral english is too. everyday I am worrying in daily work and worry about call from foreigner.
I competely aggree with what sunnyv said. he is excellent guy in my eyes.
