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I really feel so hard about handling the complex human relationships. I dare to admit I have treated others sincerely and kindly,but I can't understand why sometimes I feel others do not treat me the same way.Isn't true that trust and kindness is mutual? I am unhappy. Many things I can't express very detail and clearly here,I am reluctant to describe the detail matters because it would make me more sad. In a simple way, my suffering is similar to this situation that some people around me were kind to me before,but they treat me with indifference for the present time. I didn't do anything wrong,and I treat others with great respect and politeness,why did they treat me as this? I have to say I am a person caring too much about others' feelings and their attitude to me, I know this is not appropriate,but I really feel difficult to adjust to this. I constantly think that all the human beings have emotion,and if you have tried to form good relationship with them,they should also treat you well.But this does not always happen.I was hurt in my heart.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Once there is competition or rivalry, jealousy would arise. You may not know it but you may have become a threat to others. The reasons for treating you bad could be many, for example, like the boss is giving you important work or preference, you have better knowledge than them which makes you a threat. If you have given an example, I would have let you know where the problem us, but these things are lengthy and difficult to write in words.
These things are very hard to handle and won't go away easily. All you have to do is maintain and keep your friendly, helpful, co-operative attitude. Don't let them notice that you can be affected by gossip and become sad or depressed. Have confidence in yourself. Don't let the words of others affect you.
