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I was intertwined with my job those days.I want to go to HANGZHOU to interview.Becase its a good job for me.More important is that my boy friend in HANGZHOU.I think long distance is not good for our love.But my boss don't let me left.In this company,there are many friendly colleagues and we are get on well with each other,so i dont't reluctant to left them.My parents need me to care of them,they dont't agreen with me about go to HANGZHOU.
What shoud i do?How to make choise?
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- Reply Una1997
- You are in a dilemma now, hard to choose. I have faced that choice before, I choose to leave, not for my boy friend or others, but for me. My job was at a standstill, and I didn't know what to do when I was in the company, that status made me crazy. Finally I quit the job at the most difficulity time of a year-graduates come. Seeing your situation, I suggest you to think it over. You quite job because of the unsuitable job or just because of your boy friend. And wheter the new job is the one that you want. You said you have friednly colleagues in this company, that's precious. You may not meet that's good colleagues in other companies, in other cities.
Take some time to think of the whole thing, considering all probabilities. But one last words, just do things what you want to do, even if the process is harder, you may not regret in the future.
- Reply laoshutiqin
- i think if your boy friend can think about more for you he can choose to come to your city .as Una1977 said you shoule think more about if the life there really suit you.
- Reply xiaocao
- Don't worry. Take your time. You'll work that out. Think it over: what's more important for you you you.
- Reply susan-ma
- Una1997: You are in a dilemma now, hard to choose. I have faced that choice before, I choose to leave, not for my boy friend or others, but for me. My job wasThanks for you advice.Maybe everyone experienced can understand the choise is right or wrong at that time.
- Reply susan-ma
- laoshutiqin: i think if your boy friend can think about more for you he can choose to come to your city .as Una1977 said you shoule think more about if the life tBecase he has a well-paid work in HANGZHOU,he don't want to go here.
- Reply laoshutiqin
- susan-ma: Becase he has a well-paid work in HANGZHOU,he don't want to go here.well what about your salary?if you go to hangzhou will you have a suitable job ,i think a girl shoud have a job even when she marriaged
- Reply susan-ma
- xiaocao: Don't worry. Take your time. You'll work that out. Think it over: what's more important for you you you.
- Reply yaoyaocaoxiang
- think it with your heart,and then desid go or stay.
- Reply LBsun
- jiaxing nears hangzhou, i think you can go there.because in future you maybe find a better jod and in hangzhou there are more space to develope yourself.
- Reply susan-ma
- LBsun: jiaxing nears hangzhou, i think you can go there.because in future you maybe find a better jod and in hangzhou there are more space to develope yourseThanks for you advice.
- Reply Lizzyjiang
- I suggest you go to Hangzhou. It's better to regret after you do it than get regretful all the time for not going to do it.
- Reply warmjaney
- "so i dont't reluctant to left them" this sentence i feel something wrong, could i point out? "reluctant" is negative word, if you wanna express you are not willing to leave, you should change the "don't" into "am". right? hehe, calm down, balance, think it over, then make wise decision. good luck to you. we had better not leave the regret in the inner heart.
- Reply cloris416
- if i were you ,i'll go to hangzhou.not just for love,but for a more suitable life style.and,first you should find a job you want in hongzhou.
- Reply lucia_cici
- To make a good choice is really important for you. so you must think it over urself.friendly colleagues to you is precious . but they cannot stay with you all the time.
