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The way you want to go
I usually ask myself that what the way I wanted to go in the future. Should I need to follow the way which my parents arranged for me? I used to say not. However, my optinion is changing these days because I thought I was toally wrong after suffering some profound events. I used to like most younth that didn't follow the suggestions that our parents suggested. I thought it's my life. I should follow my feeling to live. Now, it seems that I'm wrong. Just as they said that I will understand their feeling when I get elder. Yes, they are right. I can understand their optinion a little now. I afraid that all their predictions will become true, so my thought is changing now.
I can't and don't have ablility to fight against with fate. Follow the way that arranged by fate. Find a girlfriend, get married,have a child and then accompany with them in my left life. Hah, not bad, isn't it?
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Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply sunshine2009
- hehe,do you what you like ,then most important to you now is to find a girlfriend,come on
- Reply futureNTUer
- sunshine2009: hehe,do you what you like ,then most important to you now is to find a girlfriend,come onWith all my support.
- Reply Mars.Tan
- futureNTUer: With all my support.It should be right, but I'm not in the mood to find a girlfriend now!
- Reply ohmae2009
- i think there are two items that you can think about when you decide
whether you follow the way which your parents arranged for u.
the first one is that how big the platform ur parents can provide u.
if the platform is already big enough,i suggest you had better
follow their steps,or their routines which they
designed for u a long time.
the second thing is your background. think about yourself. ask yourself what a person u wanna be.
do you have your destination? what are my strenghs and your weakness.
wat can make you feel really happy., i think if u have known yourself
completely . do not be afraid of the current predicament.keeping your ideas, molding unalterable confidence,
finally you will make it.
- Reply minyingtao
- It is a hard question to choose a life road
- Reply Mars.Tan
- pch: Parents' advice is very valuable, as they know u very well and have the experience.Yes, I believe they really consider for me.
- Reply Mars.Tan
- ohmae2009: i think there are two items that you can think about when you decideThanks for your kind suggestions. They didn't provide a big platform but a safe and stable way to me. As you said, I asked myself many questions. I doubt that if I know myself as well as my parents. They always said I'm not mature enough to make such important decision. Now, I think the most important thing I need to do is dig out what I am. Thanks for your useful comment again!
whether you follow the way which your parents arranged for u.
the first one is t
