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Is it true people see a different you?
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Always, I know myself as a shy and lacking-confidence girl, who has nothing special and could impossible stand out among the so many people. I wonder whether I could find a job when I graduate next year. Because I believe that I won't give anyone a good impression at the first time we meet. I thought I am just a common girl, couldn't be more common. But when talking on QQ, strangers who talked to me first time would say that I was a lively girl with a little humor, they would think me I am a self-confidence guy. I have no clue why I leave such a impression on them.
But it is true that I'm more active on the Internet than in daily life. Maybe it because that I don't have to chat face in face, I feel more relax chatting in this way, for they don't know me. I remember one time when I went home for holiday by train, I talked to the strangers next to my seat, they said to me later that I had a good impression on me! They regarded me as a girl full of enthusiasm. One of them even wanted me to become his GF! While my previous boyfriend thought me as a quite quiet girl. I don't know how these two totally different comment came on the same me.
Actually, I think I am a quiet one most of the time, but sometimes lively. I think I am not the guy full of confidence, just on the contray, I am the one deadly need it I think, while some people regard me as a confident one.
Helen said"There's always two sides within a person, one face to the public, another to myself when you are alone". It is true, and I usually show my positive side, maybe that's why they think me that way. Since they have believed me as such a guy, maybe I will try to be more confident later.
Post comment Comment (29 replies)
- Reply touringchina
- that's not about what kind of person you are,while that's about which kinds you want to be.You are eager to become an outgoing person who are talkactive or the other with a frosted heart.One person,two kind of character available for selecting.
- Reply fairy0612
- touringchina: that's not about what kind of person you are,while that's about which kinds you want to be.You are eager to become an outgoing person who are talkactiActually, I have the both characters in me. Neither would I want to be roo talkactive nor too frosted
- Reply touringchina
- fairy0612: Actually, I have the both characters in me. Neither would I want to be roo talkactive nor too frostedTHAT'S really a headache choice.
- Reply sddzzqq
- With common points , what could we ask for ? We are college graduates , we are healthy . Those are enough . Keep confident , because you are common .
- Reply rainecho415
- We have many things in common. Many people will be more confident and more lively on the Internet. It proves that we are more capable than we thought of ourselves. So why would we be afraid of dealing with others in the reality, right?
- Reply Pennyniu
- People always have different feelings about the same person, so it common for you to have these experiences. And it's right that everyone has different sides, not only one, but that is not bad, because every side is yourself, you should be proud with these sides, with yourself!
- Reply fairy0612
- rainecho415: We have many things in common. Many people will be more confident and more lively on the Internet. It proves that we are more capable than we thoughtYes, I think I need to find the balance as soon as possible. Then I will be the same me both on Internet and in reality.
- Reply fairy0612
- wolf13: Gosh!what an attractive girl!Be my gf if u are not in a relationship,hehe.OH! Won't you be afraid that you may scare me? Thank god, I'm not timid.
- Reply fairy0612
- Pennyniu: People always have different feelings about the same person, so it common for you to have these experiences. And it's right that everyone has differenohoh, be proud! Haha. Now I cannot do that, but I will try.
- Reply fairy0612
- wolf13: I am sorry if i scared u。just a joke.Of couse you didn't scare, and I surely know it's a joke, otherwise I wouldn't reply to your comment. Actually I have to thank you for saying me like that.
- Reply ly.identity
- "Nobody knows who i really am."
- Reply v87zhou
- People always judge someone superficially. If we just show your positive aspect and hide the negative ones, in my opinion, we will never be mature. But as to you, the campus lives are relatively "pure" instead of cruel. It's conspicuous wrong when you step into the society with your pure thought.
However, whatever you will encounter in the future, don't imitate anyone and lose your confidence.
- Reply fairy0612
- v87zhou: People always judge someone superficially. If we just show your positive aspect and hide the negative ones, in my opinion, we will never be mature. BuI know it's cruel in society, but I don't know how cruel it is.
Thank you for your suggestion. I think I will live my own style.
- Reply ly.identity
- fairy0612: Except you or include you?Ha~ I don't know. I just remember the lyric suddenly.
- Reply v87zhou
- Well, I think you can look for a part-time and communicate with your "colleagues" frequently, you can find numerous fantastic things.
