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It has been almost two years since I graduated and worked here, however I felt unhappy, clearly I knew I didn't like my present job, as well as the atmosphere around me, as long as I thought of my colleague's situation, I felt like leaving here as soon as possible. But sadly, I still was here, unhappy, maybe sometimes complain. Certainly, I don't like myself being like this, so I am eager to change now.
At the earliest few months since I came here, I had the idea of leaving sooner or later, but considering that it might be not proper to change one's job at his or her first job in a short even no more than a year's time, so I stayed, planing to walk away at the next year. But things changed, something delayed my plan, I still cannot go away, all my families think that I knew little about the nowadays situation, they thought the company now I'm in is not that bad. Maybe, it is really a good job to someone, no need to considering renting a house, no need to push yourself in a crowded bus, no need to work overtime until midnight, but I am not happy, the job now I was doing, has no technique, has no future at all, so far away from the downtown and no entertainment, bad management and so on. Anyway, no complains.
The point is, at the right time I decided to quit, I saw an advertisement, which the position needed seems attractive to me. I myself felt that it fits me very well, except that I didn't have the enough experience that they hoped. My major at college fits for their position quite well, I can use the software they mentioned, I can speak quite well English as they hoped, and I am willing to stay at the city they located, for it is near my hometown. To me, the job is just the kind I was always want to do, it perfectly combines my major and my superiority, and it locates in the city I like, but they didn't contact me after they asked for my information, I think, they may already refused me, but I still want to work in their company, but I don't know how to do, what to do, I don't know what should be the proper way to help me to change their mind, I once decided to visit them at sometime, but my friend told me that would be a little lack of consideration, she didn't think it was a good idea, but what else can I do to struggle for this chance? Telephone them? What to say, how to persuade them, since they already think I am not fit for their job? I really really want to grab this chance, to work in their company, but I also don't know what to do, what to say to change their mind, to accept me.
Any suggestions, my friends?
Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
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To get a job is like to fell love with someone. It is not so easy for both to love each at theor first love and to marry each other finally
- Reply sunnyv
- According to your description, your current job is undesirable. You should change to a more suitable job because your first job should be providing you with experience for your future career. It should also provide you with a decent living. Since you appear to be quite qualified and determined, you can take risks to change to another job, but it is better that you get the new job before you leave the present one.
As for the new job which they did not interview you, I also agree that you have to do more. Try to let them know about you. Send a personal letter to them or you may even try to call them. It is not impolite and it only shows your interest and demonstrate your suitability for the job. Sometimes action like these can do wonders.
- Reply fairy0612
- But still you won't give up at once, right? You still want to struggle for it, right? Maybe they are right, I should keep contact with the company, let them know me, maybe there will be a chance.
IMNONARCISSUS:
To get a job is like to fell love with someone. It is not so easy for both to love each at theor first love and to marry each other finally
- Reply fairy0612
- I agree that I should let them know me, at least show my determination, at least I tried, I won't regret even failed. I do think maybe calling will be better than email, for they may too busy to see the mailbox, and the reply will be delayed, while I could hear them as soon as I sent out my message.
sunnyv: According to your description, your current job is undesirable. You should change to a more suitable job because your first job should be providing yo ...
I only worried that they may already had the proper person and not in need of another employee.
- Reply fairy0612
- I really hope that would be that easy, the only thing I worried is that they consider too much about the experience, or they have already had the proper one and not in need of another person, anyway they had a plan in people. But, still, your idea is really a good one.
lgityt: Keep in contact with that company you will get it .
- Reply fairy0612
- I tried, but they told me they need someone full of experience...
Basa: have a try ,maybe there is a chance waiting for you!
- Reply ly.identity
- So you already rang them?……
Bur pull yourself up, I believe my Fairy is with specialty and language skills, you will find a desirable job.
- Reply fairy0612
- Sadly, I still struggle in my first job, still no good chance. I have to say, this time, I tried, I called them, and told them I myself feel quite quality for the position, but they didn't think so. He told me that they want someone full of experience, if they can accept someone with no or less experience, there still would be many undergraduate they could choose. They refuse me...
ly.identity: So you already rang them?……
Bur pull yourself up, I believe my Fairy is with specialty and language skills, you will find a desirable job.
And, recently, some other things happened, which made me feel rather tired, and I still need the long vocation for this year to deal with something, so maybe this year, still nothing different is gonna happen . For god's sake!
- Reply ly.identity
- Every day every time I browse the job-hunting webs, I can find my courage and confidence is melling away. Thet need experiments, they need special background, they need a lot of certificates...a lot of things which I don‘t have. Frustrated, I go to sleep. Fortunatelt, most of times when i wake up, that frustration is covered by ab eagerness to learn, to improve. Frustration is there, but if i do nothing but trapped by it, then, i will be not able to anything. This repeats tto me every day.
But for the other things happened to u, sorry, as i have no idea what they are, i cannot give ant words...but everything will be better.
Fairy dear, take a rest if you feel tired.
- Reply fairy0612
- I had the same experience few days ago, everyday I searched those websites, sent out my resume, waiting for their response, slowly, I lost confidence, lost hope, too little position fits me because of my poor working experience, hunting for a job is never easy, I think, especially for girls.
ly.identity: Every day every time I browse the job-hunting webs, I can find my courage and confidence is melling away. Thet need experiments, they need special bac ...
All I can say now is just not lose hope, just keep expecting, maybe someday it will come, beyond your immagination.LY, just keep fighting, both you and I will be better.
