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I always tell myself I should be calmative and positive when I face with some annoyance.
I always tell myself everything will be well as time goes on.
I alwsys can say many postive words to my friends when they felt down.
But I forget all above that when something goes wrong. I would felt very down or became very annoyance.
This year, I have felt annoyance many times for one same thing--renting house. I bored renting , I wanted to have my own house. But I was too lazy, most of this year passed, I just visted two buildings. I don't want to keep renting, but I look at house inactively. When the landlord increase the rent or someone throw a lease, I will become annoyance and I want to have my own house and can move in it at once.
I have many words want to say, but I feel I can't express it exactly in english. I can't sure there will be someone can understand what I said in above.
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- Reply ocean0721
- Calm down girl. If you dislike renting house, just take action to buy your own house.
- Reply lovingfun
- Instead of telling yourself too much , I think you should take action at once. This situation last long ,you will endure so much.
Just as Ocaean0721 said, you could buy a house if it is possible.
- Reply bluebird
- As growing in renting houses and numerous family moves, I understand your feelings. Some foreigners dwell in renting houses through life without feeling it's not his own home, but we cannot. Why? Perhaps many fellows traditionally see themselves as landlords and so can increase the rent at will and be haughty before their tenants!
- Reply sunnyv
- Actually, there is nothing wrong with you dear. It is only that you are procrastinating. Most of us have this weakness. We all have to force or push ourselves to finish unpleasant or difficult tasks. You seem to be quite rational and know your own weakness, therefore, you should be able to overcome anything. Remember every tall building is built from the ground upwards. You have to start somewhere and keep going, then you would get the result you want. Who likes to go house renting? Nobody. To rent a house, we have to read ads, find the house, view it, meet the blood sucking landlords and move house. Quite often, we can't even find the house we like. To have your own house, you have to make a sacrifices and you need to save up money but I can tell you that it is worth sacrificing because once you have your own house, everything else is much easier and you would have confidence and financial security.
Procrastination means we do the less urgent tasks in preference to more urgent ones, or doing more pleasurable things in place of less pleasurable ones. Most people prefer to do the easy tasks first and put off difficult tasks to a later time.
I myself do that too. I buy quite a lot of books which I keep on bookshelf knowing that I would never have the time to read them. I also buy a lot of interesting DVD movies knowing I would never have the time to see them.
You are writing quite well, so it is a pity that you did not write more.
Learn from yesterday to make tomorrow better.
Positive thinking is great, but you'll have to take effective action.
To change the world takes time; change yourself takes courage.
To change the world is hard, but to change yourself is easy.
Don't worry, everything would be fine. Just get yourself organized, gather sufficient energy and get into action. You can surely do it.
Stand by you.
- Reply sayuri
- I always just want to stay at home at weekdens, it is too hot and many real estate sales centers are too far for me. In one word, I just too lazy.
ocean0721: Calm down girl. If you dislike renting house, just take action to buy your own house.
- Reply sayuri
- Yes, I should take action.
lovingfun: Instead of telling yourself too much , I think you should take action at once. This situation last long ,you will endure so much.
Just as Ocaean072 ...
- Reply sayuri
- My landlord isn't too bad. But I think she over estimate her house, when we rented her house, there is no any funitures, it was an empty house, sure, the rent was low at that time. But, when we full filled the house little by little, she incresed the rent year by year. The every funitures were bought by ourselves, an empty house is not value for that money. But I feel moving house is a trouble thing and I have decide buy my own house, so I decided still rent her house in final.
bluebird: As growing in renting houses and numerous family moves, I understand your feelings. Some foreigners dwell in renting houses through life without feeli ...
- Reply sayuri
- Thank you for telling me so much. I also have many things want to say, but I always don't know how to express it. I am so often tempted to give up when I faced some troubles. If I can't think out how to expree what I want to say, I will give up. I know it is wrong, but I can't help myself.
sunnyv: Actually, there is nothing wrong with you dear. It is only that you are procrastinating. Most of us have this weakness. We all have to force or push o ...
Some years ago, I couldn't understand the procrastination person, I don't know why they don't choose to complete things at first then they will aquire free time to do what they want to do. If it is must to be done, and I don't do it, in this time, I also can't immersed in other things. Now, I am a procrastination person too. I often begin to do one work at the deadline. I also know it is wrong, and I can't kick out of the bad habit.
I really hate that of myself.
- Reply seshuanglala
- There is no need to think too much , just do what is on your hand . Everything will be all right .
