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AT 36 YEARS OLD I SHALL BE MORE EFFORTS
PART I CHANGES
Nearly 5 years I have left from this disrtict. In the past many changes happened. Firstly, I found my right girl, a kind, beautiful and generous lady--I said goodbye to the single, and married her. At that time we had nothing except ourselves.Then we made efforts to buy our house. Not long after that we had a little boy-- a very pretty, handsome, intelligent ...and so on little man. Now he is at one and a half years old. We are all very happy.
Secondly, I had to resign from the state-owned enterprise for the poor salary. I went to a mutinational corporation, but the location of it is so far from my house. Every morning I got up at 5:30, and then went out before 6:00. Everyday when I got home at nearly 19:30. what' more, to go to the office I firstly needed to walk, then by bus, and then take the subway, and then take the company's shuttle bus. Luckly, I did not go there by ship or plane.
Thirdly, I had to make an excuse for my wasting my studies. As I grew older, there seems a lot of things to be done. I always keep high-stung, and usually very busy. It's hard to sit a place concentrating on the learnin. To this, I feel very shamed. I knew there is no end to learning and if you don't advance you recede.
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In short, many things had changes and many things are changing.
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- Reply sunnyv
- The wishes of most people are to have a happy family, a trusted partner, a home, a stable job and a lovely child. You have already got all that, so basically you are blessed and you are the envy of a lot of people out there. Consider yourself as fortunate. I can feel that you are treasure all those thing you have now. That is the right attitude and do go forward with confidence.
A lot of people are struggling with daily living, confrontational spouses and problematic children. They are stuck with low paying, boring and hopeless jobs. You have done the right thing by leaving that low paying state owned company job. State owned company jobs used to be good but now those are sunset jobs. Sooner or later people have to move on and compete out there.
Yes, it is frustrating having to get up so early, struggle with the frustrating public transport and reach home late in the evening with little time to enjoy family life. It does feel we are enslaved just for a ordinary salary, but on the way to work, the thought of your wife and lovely child should compensate for all those frustrations.
It is true that learning is lifelong, but it does also depend on our circumstances. Work experience is also learning and upgrading yourself. You do not have to feel you are wasting time by not acquiring further knowledge. There are other priorities, like your family. Give more thoughts to a good future career is just as important.
Your attention should be on your son. Blink and a few years would have passed and he would grow up to be a bright smart boy. There is no need to stress yourself too much by worrying about the future. Problems would be solve one by one in time.
You have a great future ahead of you, so keep going forward with confidence and take things as they come. Best wishes.
