Dear Mohan,

i write you because i have find something after i do the "trick" as you told me. know what is it?

To hold hands strongly when meet people.

 

Before i didn't do as you suggested, to firmly hold hands with people, i did it quite gently, and at the same time, very indifferent. Then i began to pay attention on it, and deliberately to enforce the strength when hold hands, and i have find some difference.

1, the man, it's usually a man, would lift their head and eye on me particularly, like in a surprised moment, being impressed.

2, when i have strength in the holding, i have more clearly feel how the man is, when his hand in mine. some are nice, showed they are in a comfortable situation; some are forwardly, some backwardly; mostly, their holds are weak, gentle but cold,  polite and distant, , and so on.  you can feel many thing, and this is interesting.

 

Besides, when i saw or feel those men's surprised appearance, i got a feeling that many people are used to stay in their safe, cozy circle, when they meet  the strange person or thing, their attitude is polite and suspect. And everyday they meet the same kind people. and they become numb.

 

Then a strong hand hold would always awake them, transfer to them the high energy,encourage them to go further.

People always, in the deep heart,expect and admire the strong ones appear, show them what passion, power, strength is, then they would been influenced and began to be open and even to follow the lead,

 

So if i want to affect others, and become a really strong person, then learn from Mr Mohan, start  from a strong hand hold!