Many times when we see some beautiful imges, movies, or just hear a short conversation, we used to be touched easily, and begin to feel envy,
wow, that is really life. How happy would I be if i was the person there!
like the photo shows, young and beautiful girl and young handsome boy, especially a foreign boy, in the sunshine at the sea, wow, how romantic! right?
But dear, that is not the whole of the life, that is just one moment of the hero's life process, just a very aspect of their daily bussiness. It can be a gorgeous remembrance, while the life is still need move on, it never stay, just stay on a special moment.
The idealism mostly are persuing perfect view,situation, persue in the future, while the pragmatism is using all the available tools and skills to enhance their strength to face the life.
Then I hope to become a practical idealism, to acknowledge clearly the life is always moving on. We can appreciate the beautiful movie, beautiful peaple, beautiful view, beautiful moment, while those are just sparking in those moments, not the whole life. And do the best to enjoy the Now moment, sometimes to remind the passing moment and smile..
PS: strongly recommend a song: "Rolling in the deep " by Adele