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If we could stay in the beginning forever
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A Chinese poem, “人生若只如初见”, don’t know how to translate exactly,
If we stay in the first sight?
Anyway, I know many people understand the feeling, deeply or less.
Meet you in the flowers blooming time last year, and like the poems going, 月上柳梢头， 人约黄昏后，so sweet time full of smile and happiness.
The weather is always warm and little windy, we drink so much, red wine, white wine, strong wine, cocktail, juice, hot chocolate, icy coffee…
Get to know so many names of the drink, me even wanted to open a bar for drink,and would name it as Cosmopolitan, the name you told me of a red sweet wine at the first time I tasted it.
Go to parks and malls and many constructions, all the common places seem in a brad new world.
Send long and longer message even every minute when departed, and every time to meet is fresh and anxious.
The fresh day , the fresh air, the fresh smell, the fresh moments!
Everyday say much Thank You to each other, Thanks to meet each other, thanks God for you are here.
The song you have sang in a hotel,
Then time goes by, time goes by, time goes by!
And the pressure, problems come along.
Hard to count how many times the heart broken and repaired, and wait, and argue and conflict,… and many times even want to give up…
The two are still the very two persons, still look beautiful, still together sometimes, but already not the two exactly.
Now are cold in the appearances and exhausted inside, with no idea where all the fresh fellings gone.
If, if we could stay in the beginning when we meet, just live like that, not live on, not live on, then whether we could feel happy forever?
If , if we could always live like that, like fire lighted open air in the dark, dark night, strong happy and sensitive, and without so much pressures from the realistic, then whether we could give each other the ever lasting passion?
Post comment Comment (20 replies)
- Reply Ley
- it is really a beautiful expectation. but i think it is life that gives us passion, though it is sometimes filled with sorrow.hehe
- Reply asacao
- Ley: it is really a beautiful expectation. but i think it is life that gives us passion, though it is sometimes filled with sorrow.heheyea, i know, life is not only happiness but also pain sometime. need to get through. Thank u for understanding.
- Reply xiaofang
- Together, women think that men will change for her, men think that women will always be the same, the results they are wrong. If you can not spend all love, what is this world has been so good. You too small, the Federation of slowly evolving passion, love to the family that may let you change the situation different. Love, such as wine, strong beginning, the middle not the feeling, and you will understand that after many experience several times
- Reply asacao
- xiaofang: Together, women think that men will change for her, men think that women will always be the same, the results they are wrong. If you can not spend allhehe, u r speedy..
Principles r known by everyone, but is hard to get through... hehe, don't worry, justsome feeling, like anniversary, u know..
- Reply catnfish
- I remember once a celeberty said that he said to his wife " who are you?" every morning cos he thought it's helpful for keeping their love fresh and energetic :)
I like the saying very much, thanks :)
- Reply kingcrimson
- Don't quite know if you are going through any special experience emotionally. But it is true that as time passes, the excitement and passion we feel when we first know someone may gradually fade...and sense of burden somehow sets in, making us tired and frustrated. That's probably why lots of couples are always seeking every way to preserve their love, trying to keep it permanently fresh. Anyway, it's a complicated question...and an annoying one.
- Reply asacao
- kingcrimson: Don't quite know if you are going through any special experience emotionally. But it is true that as time passes, the excitement and passion we feel whehe, thanks for your nice comment firstly, and long time no see u, hope everything goes well. Yes as you say, it's an annoying question that we want to keep the fresh relatioship against the time fade, then frastrated, but still want to try,try, and even try to sense more happiness.. tired but greedy, a wierd circle..
i'm ok, thanks, anyway, to be suffer also is a kind of fresh feeling, hehe, right?
- Reply asacao
- catnfish: I remember once a celeberty said that he said to his wife " who are you?" every morning cos he thought it's helpful for keeping their love fGlad that we have something like in common. maybe the way of that (celebrity) is not bad, but seems a little aphasia, hehe..
strange guy..
- Reply JessicaZJL
- passion dose not base on curiosity or novelty.it could be last forever.the moer time you spend together the more feeling you have that yes!he is the prince you dreamed when you were a little girl.you would like to change to be a better person becuse of him,you will happy if he is happy.everytime when you are together is just like when you were initially meet.maybe this sounds like a movie,but try to feel like that .your situation will be better.or just come to me and throw this way haha~~~
- Reply KevinLiu
- How to keep love fresh is a really hard question to answer.I was confused by it for a long time .
- Reply asacao
- KevinLiu: How to keep love fresh is a really hard question to answer.I was confused by it for a long time .en, u also? hehe... thx for understanding... and have a good day to u...
- Reply facie
- a sensitive girl. in the past, i have the same questions like you, and there was no answer. nowadays, i seldom thought about that question for i have ended the relationship for more than two years and i'm still single. but that doesn't means i am not long for the true love. i think most of girls are like you, they must wondering the questions you asked you for more than one time. but the consequence? maybe there are one thousand answer in thousand people. but, i want to recommand a book to you, that is, men are from Mars, women are from Venus. hope this can help you.
- Reply stefanie
- beautiful feeling!even i haven't undergo such a mindful experience, but i can touch your heart more or less to listen your emotiom at that moment.no matter what you offer and loss,you have owned something which you now may not find out.i think the best love is like air,you can not touch it ,can not smell it,also you can not live without it.so i believe that someone is waiting for you.there is more happiness than sorrow in the life.you must live a wonderfull life as you want!
best wishes with you!
- Reply asacao
- stefanie: beautiful feeling!even i haven't undergo such a mindful experience, but i can touch your heart more or less to listen your emotiom at that moment.no mThanks for your kind comment and wish. I'm already ok, and hope u have good life also.hehe
- Reply asacao
- facie: a sensitive girl. in the past, i have the same questions like you, and there was no answer. nowadays, i seldom thought about that question for i haveThanks a lot. will reply u longer and maybe share with u some feelings after i read that book. i just heard it before, now i decide to read it when i have time soon. good wish to u.
