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Boys never understand why girls like to do things together, why girls always have something to discuss when they get together, why most girls tend to hate one girl while boys think highly of her. Girls is a highly-united group, you will never understand the subtle feeling hidden deep in their heart until you walk into this group.
I read a book months ago. It cannot describe girls’ friendship any better. Two girls grown up together and they are bosom friends. One is beautiful and a first-class student. She was always the center of attention. We name her A. While the other one is an average girl who has nothing special, we name her B. It’s these two girls who share nothing in common that grown up together and support each other.
While things are not always as simple as you see it. If you have a friend who is excellent at everything you don’t capable of, can you endure it? Indeed, B cannot stand it any more, she hates A. But she know A is her best friend, she can never betray her. But sometimes the seed of envy drive her mad. The way she tries to give vent to her emotions is to write something bad of A on a wall. In the deep heart, she loves A, she wants to protect her and help her. She would like to do anything for her. But it’s too late for her to realize that.
Why we always feel regret when we lose something? Why we tend to destroy something to prove it is really important for us?
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- Reply rainecho415
- Maybe we all don't like to be shadow of others. However, truely friends don't care that.
- Reply Cilla
- rainecho415: Maybe we all don't like to be shadow of others. However, truely friends don't care that.Actually, B don't care but she realize it too late..
- Reply happy_monk
- I'm wondering why "B" was jealous of "A"? In my opinion, they could take advantage of each other.
"A" should be more confident and satisfied, when having an average-looking companion, and "B" could gain more attentions than she was alone.
life is unfair, "B" should get used to it
- Reply rainecho415
- Cilla: Actually, B don't care but she realize it too late..That's a pity. But these kinds of things seem like to happen all the time in the reality. Sad but true!
- Reply umbrellazh
- Acutally, it is really hard to understand girl's motivation from the perspective of boys, vice versa. Perhaps, it is the glamor of the nature.
- Reply Cilla
- happy_monk: I'm wondering why "B" was jealous of "A"? In my opinion, they could take advantage of each other.That's what she realized at last, but it's too late..
"A" should be more c
- Reply Cilla
- umbrellazh: Acutally, it is really hard to understand girl's motivation from the perspective of boys, vice versa. Perhaps, it is the glamor of the nature.Exactly~~
- Reply Pennyniu
- "Why we always feel regret when we lose something? Why we tend to destroy something to prove it is really important for us?"
It's just because we are human, we afraid of losing but are never satisfied with what we have. Only hurt others can we find our existence, our impotance. It sounds condradictory, but it is us human's real charactor.
- Reply ly.identity
- Maybe at second thought, what B really hates is herself. Her average, her uncapability and her lack of confidence.
- Reply Cilla
- Pennyniu: "Why we always feel regret when we lose something? Why we tend to destroy something to prove it is really important for us?"Well, I try not to hurt others and never regret for what I've done before. I wish I will never disappoint myself.
It's just becau
- Reply Cilla
- ly.identity: Maybe at second thought, what B really hates is herself. Her average, her uncapability and her lack of confidence.Maybe you're right. But sometimes it's much easier to blame someone else instead of yourself. Since she cannot change what she is, the only way to make her feel better is to blame her best friend. And eventually she paid for it.
- Reply troy飘
- wow, good writing. from your perspective, i know girls better.but i think if you can amplify your characters, it can be better.
- Reply Cilla
- troy飘: wow, good writing. from your perspective, i know girls better.but i think if you can amplify your characters, it can be better.Well, I'm not a typical girl. I'm still on the way to discover characters of girls~
- Reply windhearer
- As is the case , placing the two sharply different together , we eventually have got such a result that the better is much better and the worse is much worse .It is the same with girl A and girl B . Girls were born jelous of others ,especially when girl B sees she is inferior to girl A in everything , first of all she can keep patient , being with girl A because she has to rely on the other . Later on when girl B's efforts can't help her get what she wants , her early envy tends to transfer into hatred and then it leads to her trick that she can do nothing but destroy everything she can't get . As a result , she paid for it .
The story tells us that everyone should conduct properly and behave themselves
- Reply Cilla
- windhearer: As is the case , placing the two sharply different together , we eventually have got such a result that the better is much better and the worse is mucYes, we all know this but unfortunately few of us can do this. I don't want to judge these two girls, I think both of them are kind, but they treat each other unfair. But I guess they have learned a lot from each other.
- Reply cos19
- I like the last two sentence.
In fact,we always do some unreasonable thing to hurt the most valuable friends around us . When we lose them ,there is nothing we can do . May be you are still "friend ",but not best . Try to trust each other and stand in her points ,things will be easy .
