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Hot 4502 views. 2014-7-7 16:36
What has happened to me? These days I has been in insomnia, which makes me feel horrible. That is not what I want most.
Because of the lack of room, I have to sleep with granny and my cousin in a room. It’s kind of crowded. That is not the main reason for lacking of sleep. When i just now fell asleep, granny made me awake and had a chat with me about the past. What I had to do was to listen to her and she kept telling how much she missed my dad, and began recalling the things in the past, speaking and crying. Even though I asked her to let it go, I failed to make her stop speaking. For her, what she expected was that I needn’t make a response. She was a speaker and I was her listener. I knew what I did was in vain, so I let her keep speaking out of what she wanted until she fell asleep. When she woke up again and thought of something, she woke me up and continued to say something. During that night, she fell asleep and woke up several times. Speaking out is a way for her to relieve her pressure and make her feel relaxed. The lucky thing is that the same thing didn’t happen a second night.
Actually I’m like my granny. Keeping things in my mind has a bad influenced on my sleep. The pressure of marriage and mom makes me feel uncomfortable and not know how to face the future life. In fact, I think I’m terrified of marriage life because I have no idea how to live a happy life after getting married, especially when he is in another city. I even tell them I prefer the present life and enjoy the freedom. At least, I would rather be in a relationship for a longer time. When I am asked when to get married in this year, I don’t figure out how to answer them in my heart. It seems that we have no many choices when we are no more young and will turn to be 30, in their eyes. Now what I feel is that we are playing passive roles in the moment. Under much pressure, we are forced to move towards the direction that they are looking forward to. For the time being, to go or not to go is hard for us to decide.