Some words and intonations can really affect our mood and hurt our feelings. Sometimes, we are so feeble that we are like babies who need protection as well. When someone who we don’t know or are unfamiliar to says some negative words about you, you may not get mad. However, when the one is your family member who says that, you seem not to calm down and accept that.

Because the one who loves you is loved by you, you will take her words seriously. Why they can’t help doing such things to you results from loving you. This kind of love can bring some pressure and unpleasant mood to you, so do them.

We live in such a society and we are parts of it. So it’s hard for us to refuse to infect some utilitarian customs, including me. We cannot live out of the society. So we would rather face them and hurt a lot. Then the time will cure us. No matter how unhappy we are, we learn to smile to them.