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Hot 5587 views. 2014-11-15 20:58 | colleagues, delicious, occasion, because, dinners

I’m not good at talking with others while having a dinner with them. Having dinners with others means you have to make a toast to others. However, I’m not used to this occasion and I don’t care about whether my leaders like or not. When I have to attend this occasion, I just behave as I like. When others are busying making a toast to leaders and colleagues, I am focusing on eating delicious food. When they try to make a toast to me, I feel kind of embarrassed because I’m concentrating on the food.

 

But the fact is that I’m not lucky all the time like that. Sometimes, it’s hard to eat well. When I am having a dinner with unfamiliar people, I feel uncomfortable and don’t know how to deal with the persons beside me. So leaving from the restaurant, I quickly go to another place to find something to eat.

 

According to my behavior, you are bound to know that I’m not the one who desires to advance. At times, I’m kind of envious of the one who is good at social contact. If there is something to be dicussed or dealt with, I would rather sit down to have a discussion with my colleagues instead of talking with them at table. For me, it's hard to learn the social skills and language skills to deal with people at table. 

 

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Reply dphpxs 2014-11-15 21:57
I am all the same
Reply Lizzieliu 2014-11-15 22:35
   And me too.Sometimes I don't know the befitting chance to open my mouth or what is apropriate to chat with others.But even like this I will always keep eyes on the one who is talking,because it is the basic respect I think I should show to him.People who play mobilephone during meal are so impolite that make others feel a little bit antipathy with them.
Reply Sandy003 2014-11-16 00:39
It's okay, you can try to talk some topics you know with them.
Reply 2010jj 2014-11-16 10:03
Lizzieliu:    And me too.Sometimes I don't know the befitting chance to open my mouth or what is apropriate to chat with others.But even like this I will alw ...
Most of the time,  I am just a listener whiling eating with unfamiliar people.
Reply 2010jj 2014-11-16 10:03
Sandy003: It's okay, you can try to talk some topics you know with them.
It's a good idea. it's worth trying! thanks
Reply A-C 2014-11-16 20:26
It is a process that we have to learn to communicate with others after entering the social, which is inevitable. If you try to learn and do it step by step, you will feel better than now.
Reply 2010jj 2014-11-16 20:47
A-C: It is a process that we have to learn to communicate with others after entering the social, which is inevitable. If you try to learn and do it step by ...
Thanks for your advice!
Reply Marina_Yu 2014-11-17 13:01
Me too,I don't like to have dinner with many colleagues. In that circumstances,everyone isn't enjoying dinner,but toasting to each other.Especially when there's a leader, many colleagues will toast the leader and someone even flatter the leader,it's really disgusting.
Maybe,we just haven't learned how to adapt ourself to the social environment~~~

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