Havent updated for days.
Too busy to sit down and have a glance of my recent life.

Now I have the time,So I should think about things happened recently.

And I could not help thinking about the following situation.

Almost everyday,we will find it is really very hard to change sb.Even all things you have done is for his own good.But it seems what we can do is just keeping on trying and hoping that one day things will be different.

But most of times ,you will find you are dealing with someone who always get your concerns and admit they are very reasonable but forget it in an instant without hesitation.

Try once,twice..tenth.Until one day you find although you have used all kind of ways try to change sth,still you failed.What will you feel? Angry?Cool with it?Rediculous?Totally Throw it behind you forever?

My feeling is at the very begining It made me very angry and then I was cool with it and felt stupid about it,at last I will be hurt badly.

We Poeple are really strange creature.

The one you love,no matter he is a best friend of yours or your lover,they will promise to take your advice and dont make the same mistake whcih may hurt them badly,totally sincerely,always.But next time,they will still repeat the loop.

Hurt->heart broken or regret->asking for your advice->ignore advices->hurt again

and you will go into the loop,comfort broken heart->feeling bad for their situation->giving sincere advice objectively->hoping they can take your advice and not been hurt anymore->see them hurt again.

I remember TV series named Supernatural,when sam found out he should keep on repeating his elder brother Dean's death for over hundred time.At the very begining he feel sad and try to save him,but very soon He felt corrupted and crazy.

Everyone will be like that.

If you always see your loved ones who are always been hurt,You will feel even worse than they do.

But why these occurrences  never have a sign of stop.

And why?

Finally here is the only reason i can get ,may be The notion of life is only to torture each other ?Especially the ones who we love and the ones who love us?and thats for only you can feel pain,therefore you can feel live?