As things get harder and harder at school, and as pressure builds on, many people start to reveal their real personalities. Some may change into a completely different person, while some may stay the same despite the external factors.

For a long time, I have always had some friends who do not talk to me regularly, but only come to me when they are in need of help. Despite always trying my best to consult and help these friends anyways, I sometimes felt used and upset. I did not understand why they only came to be when they had troubles, and I doubted my importance to them.

Only until recently did I start to change my view about the situation. My mother told me that it is because I am important to these friends, that they choose to come to me during their most troubled times. Even my friends in China, who I have not seen for almost 6 years ask me for advice and assistance.

These friends of mine are extremely important to me, because we share the best memories of our lives. I am glad to be a reliable source of comfort that they can always trust on, and I will always be here for them.

If you also feel the same way I used to feel, stop making yourself upset. It is a very precious thing to be seen as a trustworth source of consultory. Maybe I will consider this as part of my future career. Who knows?