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when I nearly forget him
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Thoes days ,I come into mylife for a perior time as I live for myself without others' disturbance .I have never felt so relax.
However,he suddenly sent me a message which saying "are you on holiday,do you go home",though the words are so short,I still can't help being happy to recieve it at first. Soon after that,I felt sad about it ,I would rather that he didn't contact with me anymore after he told me that we are impossible to be together.I don't know what he means when he send me the message again which misunderstood me and made me feel it is possible for him to be my boyfriend.He said he miss me sometime,and he didn't want to hurt me and to see I sad, I think it just an excuse to refuse me and avoid responsibling for the previous saying"I love you".I don't understand the distance is really a problem if he love me,why I said it is impossible when he asked me if he could pursue me,on the contrary,he said it is impossible when I said "I love you",does is a tragedy,maybe not ,it is just a experience,ha ,our karma stop here,and the consequense is we couldn't be friends forever as the conection between us would remind me of him.
The God is alway fond of playing a joking with people.Here feel sorry to the one who love me ,I never care about it.
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- Reply huckabee
- Distance is truly a problem, even the best and the most sacred couldn't stand long time separation and scarcity of endearments.
- Reply jakia_zou
- Please reserve your energy on other side,that you can forget the nugae.Believe that everything will be fine after today.
- Reply empty~empty
- Yeah，just a matter of time.THank you.
- Reply littlegrass
- You are so great and brave to learn to forget, and you will feel bettera and better.
- Reply empty~empty
- Yeah,just a passer,needn't care much.
- Reply touringchina
- time will prove and test everything,my friend,believe it or not,we all have a fixed destiny,which is not meant to be altered.
- Reply empty~empty
- touringchina: time will prove and test everything,my friend,believe it or not,we all have a fixed destiny,which is not meant to be altered.Yeah,I think so.
- Reply GXYeats
- Absence to love is what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.
- Reply empty~empty
- GXYeats: Absence to love is what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it inflames the great.what you analogy is so true.I couldn't agree more.
- Reply ydliu88
- I identified with your experience. When we have a crush on someone, we are liable to get addicted to thinking of him, painting a rosy picture of a splendid future with him. An expression in his eyes and a sweet smile of him will make you convinced that he likes you as well. You may have never doubted about your charm in front of him or whether you are the one in his heart. However, as time get by, you may find he don’t show much enthusiasm on you while It is yourself who want to text him and call him every day. Sometimes his seemed flirting hint on you may give you ecstasy while other times his indifferent attitude to you may even make you disappointed and angry. Your relationship become tense, which you think you could bridge it through both effort. Your previous enthusiasm, absurd expectations and illusions on him have not totally vanished until one day, he told you that you can only be ordinary friends and there is always another girl in his heart. What can you do about it? This is life. Adversity makes a girl grown up. Just try to forget the pain, take a lesson from it. Heart pain is unavoidable but it won’t last too long as long as you believe you will sure to find someone better. You must trust me! A man who is ten times better than him is waiting for you in the near future.
- Reply empty~empty
- Yeah,thank you for your sincere words,I trust you, and I think I'm a forgetful and selfish girl so that it didn't take three days if I have decided to forget him. So just do the current most important thing for myself,enjoy the going life.As a girl,smiling everytime is the instinct.
GOOD luck my friend!
- Reply ydliu88
- empty~empty: Yeah,thank you for your sincere words,I trust you, and I think I'm a forgetful and selfish girl so that it didn't take three days if I have decided tYeah！Just be a realistic girl ,try the best but prepare for the worst!
- Reply empty~empty
- ydliu88:Yeah！Just be a realistic girl ,try the best but prepare for the worst!
，thank you!!Girls help each other.
- Reply nanncycn
- I have a similiar experience with you.When I nearly forget him ,he phone me,but in the end, we have no result.While ,we became friends,just let the feeling of love bury in the mind.
- Reply empty~empty
- Alex809: you are so smart a girl ,you will find a better one in the future!ha~~,thank you!
- Reply empty~empty
- nanncycn: I have a similiar experience with you.When I nearly forget him ,he phone me,but in the end, we have no result.While ,we became friends,just let the feHowever,I couldn't do as you,I can't help express the feeling if we keep in touch with eachother.So just stop connection with the resuslt.
- Reply charry
- You know there is another guy fall in love with you? I think you have to tell him how you feel about him, directly. Otherwise, he might be hurt in the future. Pay some of your attentions on him, maybe he is your best choise.
- Reply empty~empty
- charry: You know there is another guy fall in love with you? I think you have to tell him how you feel about him, directly. Otherwise, he might be hurt inOf course,I have told him directly,and not once.In fact,I always think of him when I'm free though I have told myself we are impossilbe.Now,I don't know what to do but to occupy myself in different things , as I could just forget him in the busy time.
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