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To have a good marriage or perch on a high income job? It has been a topic on the internet, arousing more discussions from both the young people seeking their Mr. & Mrs. Right and other people concerned.
For me, a woman's perspective, I prefer the latter. What is the criteria of the good marriage? Generally speaking, it contains perfect husband, thoughtful and wealthy parents-in-law, big houses, and luxury cars, etc. If you have one or more than one, you are luckier. Congratulations!
However, besides giving, taking is another important factor contributing to a terrific marriage. At the beginning, man, who is likely to enjoy the visual image, doesn't care giving, for you are a beauty perhaps. But with the time passing by, when he is tired of your beautiful face and slim figure, he is by nature to ask taking. So, what do you have? It is no need to deny a good marriage can ensure a high-quality life. However, if it is provided by another, not you, it will be insecure and it will be taken back anytime.
A woman who has a job, high or low income, has access to the society and can keep pace with it. When a man is tired with your beautiful countenance, you are able to exchange any topic about life with him. To find a soul mate is the essence of the marriage to the core. Therefore, woman should have her own job and economic independence can surely ensure a good marriage.
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Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply freefu55
- I choose the right girl, not the girl who has a high income job.
Sorry not agree with you, but your writing is good.
- Reply hourglass
- I believe a woman should have her own job (no matter high income or low income). It will extend her mind and make herself more confident. I think men like confident women more
- Reply freefu55
- Sorry can not agree with you. I do not think job with high salary can make one more confident, confidence comes from the recognition of their perfect execution or accomplishment.
hourglass: I believe a woman should have her own job (no matter high income or low income). It will extend her mind and make herself more confident. I think men ...
- Reply hourglass
- Hahah it s okay, I mean woman should have a job at least no matter high income or low income..
freefu55: Sorry can not agree with you. I do not think job with high salary can make one more confident, confidence comes from the recognition of their perfect ...
- Reply sunnyv
- An enviable rich marriage or a high income glamorous job? Hearing this, I have to recall the common saying about; ''Do you want to laugh riding on the back of bicycle, or you want to cry at the backseat of a BMW?''.
It is a pity that I could not read Chinese, therefore, I could not read those comments on the internet. However, I do have a good understanding of the situation through my friends and social contacts.
Every girl dream of a sweet, loving, promising and never ending marriage. Every man dreams of career success, wealth and good social status.
How many can realize those dreams? Surely, not many. Only very few. Everyone seems to be chasing all these wonderful dreams but most end up with an ordinary relationship, a regular boring job and regrets.
Time and years passes them by and by the time they achieve something, their youth is gone never to return.
So come on! Which is better? A great job or a wonderful marriage? Hmmm.... OK. Everything is weighed on money nowadays. It seems without money, nothing much can be achieved. We live in a materialistic and possessive society so we have no choice but go harvesting for money, otherwise we would be ignored, scorned upon or looked down on.
The best thing to do is to get a good job, because that is not impossible.
With a good job, you have self confidence, respect, good income, intelligent, independence and not appear to rely on others to survive. With all these advantages, people would view you in good light and would want to be part of your life.
Those who are blessed with beauty and good looks may want to used these blessings to marry the rich and glamorous, but there is no free lunch anywhere. After those good looks diminish, all that is left is an empty shell having to endure the marriage in emptiness.
As for men, most girls knows how to appreciate a hard working, forward looking, intelligent with man far vision and independence. It would be a hard struggle but most likely they would succeed in time, and even if they can't reach their target, he would have sacrificed and tried his best.
Everyone, have hope and struggle seriously for your future.
Nothing sacrificed, nothing gained.
- Reply umbrellazh
- Actually, man is from Mars, while women is from Venus. On the other hand, before and after marriage, people think differently, so some extent.
freefu55: I choose the right girl, not the girl who has a high income job.
Sorry not agree with you, but your writing is good.
- Reply jennie_li
- I agree with you.I think choose a good man is very important for a girl,time、income and age are not problems.
freefu55: I choose the right girl, not the girl who has a high income job.
Sorry not agree with you, but your writing is good.
- Reply samanthe
- I want both. As long as you are good enough, god will bless you. You pay and you are paid.
- Reply freefu55
- haha, you are so witty.
umbrellazh: Actually, man is from Mars, while women is from Venus. On the other hand, before and after marriage, people think differently, so some extent.
- Reply ameng_zi
- For a human, whether you are a man or woman, independence will be the most fundamental. Only being independent, you can do whatever you want.
- Reply umbrellazh
- yeah, I can not agree with you more.
ameng_zi: For a human, whether you are a man or woman, independence will be the most fundamental. Only being independent, you can do whatever you want.
