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True love is also difficult, operating a true love might be more difficult than finding a true love In this society. Today is my birthday,but I do not very glad because I have a little trouble of love. I found a true love,we love each orther,but why so difficult to be together. I am a civil servant, but she had no formal work, my family members require me that work as the antecedent condition looking for an lover.feel my colleagues also have strange eyes,when they ask for my lover's work,I don't know how to answer.just like a mistake that haven't a formal job.I really do not want to take into account social factors , but how can it not be affected? I would also like all things are smooth, but this is not the kind of . How do I persist? How to resolve?
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- Reply funny_john
- society,life,work,love, just your mind, just do your best
- Reply dulala
- happy birthday! love your lover, this is most important thing in your life.Don't pay too much attention on the other's thought because they are not you. you clear the feeling, not others
- Reply Serina
- Because you are Chinese,you know chinese people aways care about these things.I hope you will be getting a good comeout.
- Reply ybq1215
- true love is difficult to acheive , but if you can get it , it will be your luck , true love is based on mutual respect and understanding ,
hope you happy and be cheerful
- Reply sunnyv
- You are torn between love, parents and and social pressures. You have no choice but to weigh the value of love and pressures. The one you love concern your long term future and eternal happiness. You may not be able to find someone you love truly again later. I understand that the demands of parents cannot be overidden easily. Sometimes, we have to face our parents and overcome their demands in a peaceful and convincing way. The best thing is that she find a permanent job, but it seems there are some reasons she can't have one. Not having a permanent job temporily is not disgraceful. She do not have a job now does not mean she will never have a job and if you have real love for her then her job is not so important. Some parents demand that a boy have his own purchased home but this is very difficult to do and by the time you have your home, the love is gone. True love is above all and having somebody you love beside you nourishes your mind and gives you the energy to struggle and progress. It will be a real pity if you two can't be together just because of such negligible reason. . You and she may suffer a lifetime of regret if you make an unwise decision just to please your parents. Never give up buddy, never give up.
- Reply minyingtao
- Happy birthday
- Reply zblok
- funny_john: society,life,work,love, just your mind, just do your bestI'll do the best,but what's the best?
- Reply zblok
- warmjaney: hey, friend, happy birthday to you! everything will be fine!thank you ,I Look forward to that wonderful day.
- Reply zblok
- dulala: happy birthday! love your lover, this is most important thing in your life.Don't pay too much attention on the other's thought because they are not yothank you very much,and thank you giving me the confidence to face the real love.
- Reply zblok
- Serina: Because you are Chinese,you know chinese people aways care about these things.I hope you will be getting a good comeout.yes,it is china,so I have this troble,I think I'll persisting.
- Reply zblok
- ybq1215: true love is difficult to acheive , but if you can get it , it will be your luck , true love is based on mutual respect and understanding ,thank you,After hearing what you said,I feel better,and also feel very fortunate.
hope you
- Reply hirondelle
- I share the same experience with you. I invite you to have a look at my latestest blog "Am I Guilty".
- Reply zblok
- sunnyv: You are torn between love, parents and and social pressures. You have no choice but to weigh the value of love and pressures. The one you love concernfirst,thank you very much for your very kindly advice.you must be a foreign friend,we have a different social background,in your country,love is all thing,is god,is the first,is the best.but this is china,when we do something we must consider a lot.sometimes,because we think about a lot we must give up doing this thing.not rule out the love in the past.now it's better,but still have some influence.The concept of the traditional good match still exists
second.in china, have a large gap between the work, only the civil servants and public institutions, good state-owned enterprises be considered as a formal work, job matching can be considered a kind of traditional values. If not developed area, working to see more emphasis.
at last,thank you again, I'll never give up,I'll persist to the end.I believe that I and my girlfriend have a good happy life.
- Reply zblok
- hirondelle: I share the same experience with you. I invite you to have a look at my latestest blog "Am I Guilty".I don't think you have the same experience with me.cos you have made the choose.
- Reply sunnyv
- zblok: first,thank you very much for your very kindly advice.you must be a foreign friend,we have a different social background,in your country,love is all tHi Dear freind. You are wrong. Yes I am a foreigner but I was born in China and grew up among the Chinese community here in China. I am very familiar with the customs and practices of Chinese society and may be I know more than you about this. I speak very fluent Chinese and most of my friends are Chinese. China is still quite traditional in this and still blindly follow the old ways. This cause a lot of misery and sadness to people of marriagable age. Anyway, I know what you mean and what you are trying to express. Just hope you two can be together forvever. Bless you.
- Reply hirondelle
- zblok: I don't think you have the same experience with me.cos you have made the choose.Yes, before I made my choice, I had been sandwitched between love and reality for 1.5 years. Now it's time for you to make up your mind.To speak the truth, to procrastinate your decision does no good to both of you.
