But individual tips down to their own choice.  The group choose the person love you, may they are hurted by the past experience knowing deeply how painstaking in maintance to prolong the relation. But even lots of sacrifice or adjustment they pay, the result is one day the love still gone without any hesitation. The love, they try so hard suddenly turn to smoke without any trace. In the course of whole period, they shape themself to be another one to match their lover, but the lover seems still keep shaking, indecision and when another one just appears there so simply or just from a first glance, you lover, lost, so ironically. The relation you long cultivation with meticulous good cares but the result is the fruit grappled by a pass-by that forms the group scant of the security to determinedly find the person love them.

    What about the others find the person you love? They are subjective and charming ones. They are not afraid of no one loving them. Cau you know clearly how it boring or awkward you feel in the company with the one loving you. More and more they do to pick up your love, faster and faster you want to run off for no other reason than no touch in you mind and hard to disobey you own emtions. The disaster is you may go through the thick and thin to find the one you love, but unfortunatly the lover seems unqualified or having the lover, so you are out without any bargain. Yes, you still waiting to find another one, but when? No one knows.

    So there is no fairness in love, there are only the tries, changes and hopes in love. 

    But it is ok, instead of waiting, why not being a better yourself to easier get your chance of wining your love. If he is good, you are equally with him walking along the road. If he is not there, you also can draw lots of attentions to cast on you, you have more occassions to decide.

    Therefore, when you lonely, never waste you time locking in the door to deplore the sadness or unlock, of a good cheer is needed.

    The last, hope every single will find you true love and bless me a good man destinedly belongs to me.